Hello! Please call me Niya (pronounced like Maya). I’m a 22 year old woman who’s in dire need of structure and discipline. I’ll tell you a bit about me below.

-VANILLA INFO- I’ve always been curious about BDSM and the lifestyle but, I’ve never really tried diving in and finding a Dominant that fits me. I’m a 5’10, chubby, reserved woman who likes to read and watch Studio Ghibli movies. I’m a student and I also work full time. My hobbies include reading and writing but, I’m also trying to start crochet. My passion and goals all center around me becoming an author. I like to go on tangents about projects I’m working on so, maybe that’s something you’d be interested in hearing?

-KINKY INFO- I’m very inexperienced when it comes to sex in general. My resume consists of one really bad kiss four years ago. But I think I have a general idea of what I like. I’m into submission, of course. That feeling of having someone I can give my control to while still feeling safe and powerful, in away, excites me. I’m curious about a plethora of other things: bondage, cnc, somnophilia, orgasm control, sensory play, praise and degradation, some impact play, etc. I have taken the BDSM test and I have those results if you’d like to hear them. I’m also kind of big on exhibition I think.

-ABOUT YOU (hopefully)- What I’m looking for is kind of specific. I’ll start with the physical stuff.

-Taller than me -Strong but soft body (similar to Dax Shepard 2014) -Age ranging from 24-29 would be preferred

As to personality, I’m just hoping for someone kind and playful. A little goofy and someone who loves physical affection.

Kink wise…I’m hoping for someone who has similar interests to mine and can be strict when they need to. I’m really looking for a Dom who has some financial intelligence to guide me and show me how to properly manage my funds. I would also like to get on a good routine with sleep and daily tasks as well. I’m very open and flexible with the kind of Dom you are. I just need guidance and structure. Self discipline and someone I can talk to.

I’m sorry if I’m rambly or a bit all over the place in the last paragraph. I’m literally a blank slate but I don’t want someone who is constantly in the Dom headspace or that’s all they have to offer. I want to be your friend and your submissive. I want this to last. If you’re interested, tell me your favorite color and what video game you grew up playing.

I look forward to talking to you! Xoxo, Niya <3