Hi this is going to be a bit of a long post but I figure may as well give as much info as I can so no oneās time gets wasted finding out weāre incompatible.
A little about me, Iām a 32F from NY with a sassy, sarcastic sense of humor. My main job has me working in healthcare and absolutely love it. Iām a big animal lover, I currently own 3 horses and a dog and am actively working on getting back in the gym so that I can get back in shape and return to showing and riding on a more regular basis. I also work at a thoroughbred farm. I work with the foals, ask me about them I can gush over how cute they are and how proud I am of previous babies that are now at the track for hours. Iāve heard the āhorse girlā thing is a š© š© so do what you will with that information.
I have other hobbies and interests outside of the horses but I will admit theyāre my primary passion. I enjoy working with my dog, cooking and baking, reading, 4-wheeling, watching anime, watching TV, and singing way too loudly in the car. Full disclosure I am also a single mother and while thatās not my whole personality it is an important part of who I am so I 100% understand if thatās not your thing.
Appearance wise Iām 5ā8ā and curvy. Iām working more on functional strength than anything else right now to get back into riding however even in great shape Iām never going to be petite. Hazel eyes and my hair is currently an auburn color though I color it pretty frequently and Iām seriously considering red and black next. I have a few tattoos and want more in the future. Iām happy to exchange pictures if youād like.
As far as what Iām looking for Iām not interested in being a dirty little secret so if youāre married and unhappy Iām not interested and Iād like to find someone around my age 30ish-45ish. Communication is important, ideally Iād like to find someone interested in developing a longer term relationship. I just ask that you be adult enough to communicate when the conversation has run its course or youāre not feeling it anymore, no one likes the feeling of being ghosted. Ultimately Iām looking for a connection whether itās just friendship or maybe something more, though Iāll admit Iām a little skeptical about finding that on Reddit but Iām ever the optimist. Look arenāt super important if the connection is there though Iām a sucker for a man with tattoos. Iām looking for someone that gets to know me and my quirky weirdness and thinks āthatās my girlā instead of āI wish you were differentā. Iām okay with something completely online or if youāre closer Iād love to meet up eventually. I am not able to relocate at this time so if thatās a dealbreaker I understand.
As far as NSFW stuff Iāve been involved in the BDSM world for about 10 years and have a pretty good idea of what I like and am comfortable with. I have a list of kinks we can discuss, as far as a DD/lg dynamic Iām more of a middle than a little. I wouldnāt say Iām particularly bratty, Iām not willfully defiant, but my natural humor and sarcasm do color my behavior sometimes so depending on your definition of bratty I might fall into that. Iām looking for a Dominant that allows me to feel like I can give up control and be a safe space for me to be a sassy good girl. Because I do want to be good and submission is a part of who I am. That being said Iām not interested in a 24/7 TPE dynamic. Between my jobs and kid I donāt have the capacity for that. The submissive mindset is always kind of there but I donāt want someone trying to control every aspect of my life. I also want to get to know you as a person. Iām a talkative person (if you couldnāt tell) and I want to be able to shoot the shit with you and build a foundation outside of the spicy stuff.
I could keep going but Iāll cut it off here. If youāve made it this far thank you, if you want to chat let me know what your favorite song to sing in the car is!
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