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Iām gonna try to be honest and clear but if thereās anything else u wanna know just dm me, or if not then dm me anyway! x
My name is Oliver but most people call me Oli. Honestly you can call me whatever you like. Iām a kind, understanding guy looking for a long-term (hopefully forever) little/partner of any gender, to properly get to know and form a real connection with.
I love cuddles and little-space time, just as long as you still want to talk to me in normal-space too and have a laugh. Yes I love the CGL dynamic, I love looking after my little and treating them special and making them feel loved ofc. But Iām not looking for JUST a little. I want a real relationship.
I love having real, sometimes conversations about anything and everything. Quality time is so important, being in touch with our own feelings and each othersāz And also ofc laughing together about silly things. I donāt want to jinx it by saying this, but Iām really looking for someone to fall in love with.
About me:
Physically Im 5ā11ā (180cm), Broad shoulders, kinda a dad-bod but not like fat, fair/brown hair, a short/tidy beard & blue eyes. I do a fairly physical job so Iām pretty fit & strong. (Feel free to ask if u want to see pics)
Im a bit of a homebody tbh, I have friends but I donāt go out to clubs or anything. I much prefer staying in, but still love having dates/adventures with someone special. Iām a bit of a big nerd for all the typical nerdy things, Star Wars, LOTR, Pokemon etc, plus I love history, geography and nature (I studied Geography at University).
In my free time I read quite a lot, and I love to draw and do crafts (woodwork, polymer clay etc). Iād love to see if you do any arts/crafts too! Sometimes I play video games so I wld love someone to play cute stuff with. Minecraft/stardew/animal crossing stuff like that, but this isnāt essential at all.
Also I love animals! I have a dog called Maggie and she is pretty much my world. Iād love to hear about your pets/stuffies.
Iāve been through some mental health struggles in the past so Iām super open-minded about any issues/trauma you might have, and Iām more than happy to talk about anything and help support you in any way I can, once you feel comfortable.
Helping you might involve just talking through things, helping you with routine, setting you daily tasks etc etc. I will set you rules if thatās something youāre interested in. I can sometimes be strict but Iām not very good at being super mean/strict. Iām not great at punishments (excluding nsfw) either cos Iām too much of a softy tbh, being horrible isnāt fun for me, but Iām open to try if thatās something you want.
I work a full-time job so canāt message all day but can message (and/or call/vc maybe) most days in the evening. Once we get close I can sometimes be a bit clingy but itās just cos I care a lot x
Ok, the NSFW stuff:
Iām not in a big rush to get sexual, I think itās probably healthier to form a bond first. There is no pressure, Iām happy to totally go at your pace, I respect that itās harder for some people than others to open up ab physical stuff. But I do have a fairly high sex drive once we get to that stage. Sexually Iām 100% a dom, I can sometimes be very rough/K!&ky, but I donāt want to do anything youāre not comfortable with. Itās important to discuss these things beforehand so i donāt cross any lines I shouldnāt. I donāt want to SA you, I just want to make you my plaything and then make you scream and beg.
What Iām looking for:
- Ideally someone my age or younger, definitely not over 30 or under 18.
- Someone ok with sending pics (once youāre comfortable, just to prove ur not a catfish).
- Iām not fussy about body type or ethnicity, but Iād like someone who Iām attracted to facially.
- Please be fluent in English.
- Someone who isnāt Asexual. Im not going to rush into anything nsfw, but Iād hope to talk ab se ual things eventually when youāre ready.
- Preferably i wld want someone in the UK or Europe so thereās not too much time-zone difference, but Iām open to talking to people from anywhere.
- Someone with a sense of humour and an open mind.
- Preferably not somebody who smokes loads or does serious drugs (Iām 420 friendly I just mean no hardcore stuff/addiction)
- Iām hoping for someone willing to make an effort - who wonāt send one word replies and wonāt expect me to provide the momentum of every convo. I hope this list isnāt too demanding.
As I say, feel free to dm if youāre at all interested x
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