Hello. My name is Ryan. It used to be I never thought this would be for me, but I've had a couple experiences now with daddy/little dynamics and what I've discovered is that... I really, really like it. And I'd really like to find someone to have that with long-term.

To me, being a Daddy or a caregiver means being the reliable one in your life. Being the person you look to first when you're stressed or lonely or anxious. The one who makes you feel safe and secure and hopeful for the future. A sounding board, a voice of reason, a mentor, a source of near-infinite affection and love and praise and encouragement. Someone who works hard to see you achieve your dreams and who works hard to make sure you feel heard, and seen, and validated, and loved.

From you, I want to feel wanted. Needed. I need affection in vast amounts. Cuddles and kisses and teasing and flirting and texting. I want to always be the person you come back to each time you venture out to learn about yourself. I want you to just sit in my lap and share that time, that moment, that space. I want to feel loved.

Outside of bed, I'm very gentle. Forehead kisses, hugs, cuddles, neck rubs, smiles, teasing. I'm never mean. I'm not stern or strict----I'll enforce rules for when you need to take care of yourself, but I usually give you a mostly free reign beyond that. Unless you're intentionally bratting at me, that is.

In bed, though... some days I just want to grab you and hold you down and fuck your brains out and I want to do it frequently and I don't want to do it gently. I love the adrenaline, the rush. Other days I want to worship your body and have you worship mine. I love toys, I love power dynamics, I LOVE collars. I want to explore that kinky side.

Obviously the things I'm describing are very intimate, and occasionally intense. This type of connection doesn't appear spontaneously between any two random people just because we both want it, and it probably doesn't appear overnight either. Trust and affection build up over time.

I'm polyamorous. I believe people can hold multiple close and intimate connections with others at the same time. I certainly know I can. I know that the partners I have now, the ones I've had in the past, the ones I will have in the future, are all deeply special to me.

I'm a nerd type. I deeply love stories----books and shows in particular---- for their ability to teach and help us grow and see the world differently. I most certainly will be constantly pitching you on my favorites, so be ready for that. I like games but no longer consider myself a gamer. I like science and robotics and watching video essays on youtube. I'm an extremely curious person. I'm a leftist. I'm very funny (I promise).

This has been a bit of an essay, but I think you'll find that it's normal for me never to use one word where three would do. It's your turn now, I think. If any of this makes you think you might want me in your life, I hope to hear from you. And either way I hope you have a great day. :)