If you're here because of the term co-regulation being used, hi. I'm already smitten. 😝

Lookin for my forever person!

Long distance is fine, I'm willing to relocate long term.

About YOU!

You're 30-50 years old. You're emotionally intelligent and availible. You are child free or your kids are above 16 and you don't want any more. You don't smoke cigs and are monogamous. I'm open to all race's, body types, heights, but a little bit of attraction is needed. You expect to have a couple texts every day, and phone calls/video calls regularly. You communicate through the bad, good and ugly. You are looking for a partner to be your priority.

About meeee

Im a pretty big homebody, I like big brother, Disney, and psychological thrillers. I like some video games (I have a PS4 so multiplayer games would be so fun!) I like to read a lot about psychology and trauma work. If you know about some stuff about that, that's huge green flags for me! I love nature, I love big trees and the beach, theyre two of my healing spots. I like going for walks, bike rides, and yoga. I also bought a mini trampoline recently for more somatic work hehe. I'm a leftist but have a complex relationship with it and my affinity for power exchange being one of my biggest kinks. I like rock music and have an alt style. As mentioned im a BBW and pretty ok with it, but I am hoping to get my Dom to help me with weight-loss and physical health.

The nitty gritty

I have some serious mental health issues which leave me unable to work full-time. So please be fine with a humble life or ok being the main bread winner. I also don't drive shrug

Kink wise

Looking for something TPE-ish, I love a well organized dude who puts in the work. As long as you are game for that and spankings til I bruise ... we should be able to make things work. Im open to a lot of stuff but we can talk details later.

I expect us to be compatible on most levels, not just kink. We should click as friends and partners first, I take my kink very seriously, but at the end of the day we are equals and that respect should always be there.

I don't ghost and expect the same courtesy. We are all adults, let's practice being respectful to one another.

Please give a thoughtful reply, just hello will possibly be ignored.