Hi there!

I am looking for a girl to call my own, and while I know Reddit is a long shot, it’s still better than no shot, so please have a look and just maybe we are right for each other?

I am a 29 year old guy from Copenhagen, Denmark. Physically I am 188 cm tall (6'2"), got blondish-brown hair and a trimmed beard and glasses - Body wise I would describe myself as a dad-bod, fluffy but with muscles underneath. I have been told that my bright blue eyes are my best feature!

My hobbies include spending a lot of time cooking waaaaaaay too yummy food (hence the dad-bod), playing video games, learning about history, go skiing in winter and swimming in the summer, watching TV shows, documentaries and listening to podcasts. I also love to travel and would love a partner who wants to explore the world with me!

I generally am the type to have my life in order. I like to plan, organize and schedule everything, so that I can achieve my goals and be successful in life. So far it has worked fairly well.

As a daddy - I am extremely caring, supportive and sweet most of the time - I very much enjoy having a soft sub who I can goof around with and take care of. Preferably also someone who wants some guidance in her life, and wants a daddy to be that guidance or teacher, and be the steady rock that she can use for support, knowing that I am there to take care of her when she needs it. I also would love to be able to talk about everything, play video games or watch TV shows together and whatever else we might come up with!

Kinks

However, just because I am sweet, that doesn't mean I cannot be firm when needed, and I definitely enjoy handling bratty behaviour when needed, but I don't want it to be a constant rebellion. I put a LOT of effort into being a good daddy for my partner (and frankly I am very confident in my ability to be an amazing daddy :) ), and I don't want that energy to be spent on someone who does not appreciate it (or at least gives the outward impression that she does not appreciate it).

Thus I am also hoping that my future partner has a masochistic side to her, and appreciate a dom that isn’t afraid to get rough on her when the mood strikes. I definitely have a sadistic streak, so you would need to appreciate that aspect. Obviously, I put my important role as a responsible dom above everything else and keeping my little girl safe has to be a priority. An example of my sadistic kinks include CNC, Face slapping, spanking, choking, body writing, degrading, hair pulling, wax play, you probably get the point. If this is something that floats your boat, you should definitely let me know! Like everyone else, I have more kinks we can discuss in private.

Obviously these things are only within what limits my partner might have, and I always respect a safeword being used. My responsibility as a dom obviously extends into aftercare, which is equally important, especially after a rough session. In fact, outside of the bedroom, you will find me one of the sweetest people around. Like hold your hand, nuzzle your hair, kiss your forehead until you almost get sick of me, kind of sweet.

Aside from that, hard limits include: scat, permanent damage, cheating, vomit.

As for my partner, I have a preference towards someone shorter and younger than myself. A cute face and beautiful hair are the things I find most attractive in a girl. :)

Lifestyle

In general I am looking for a partner who enjoys the contrasts in having a daddy that truly cares and is very loving in public, but rough behind closed doors, so to speak. It's not like this is set in stone, and I am hoping that we can adjust based on our common likes and dislikes, so that more or less rough/soft play becomes part of it, depending on your preferences.

Aside from that, I am a huge control freak. I like making rules and give tasks for my submissive to follow in her daily life, and for me, the more the better - Examples: Daily routines, diet control, picking out clothes for her, bedtime, chores, punishments, funishments, orgasm control, etc. However much control you are willing to give up, I am there to catch you and take over. TPE, Freeuse and the like are also very interesting kinks to me, but not necessary.

I also enjoy some clingyness from my partner, and I am also a bit clingy myself. I prefer being able to talk, call, or chat daily, and that my partner has time for me to be part of her life. Of course, family, school/work, life is also very important, and a relationship should not hinder that. I have a quite busy life, but for the right woman, I can arrange my priorities so that she gets attention!

Lastly, I will add that I am fine with starting out online, but I want a relationship with the goal of meeting IRL eventually.

Last pointers:

I am not interested in poly relationships. I am not looking to share you, and you should not expect to share me either.

Please be in Europe. Timezones are a bitch, and so are long travel distances if we are to ever meet sometime in the future without it being super expensive or difficult.

Not interested in a transgender partner, sorry. It's just not something I am into.

Please be sort of healthy mind and body. No substance abuse, untreated mental illnesses, extremely overweight etc.

So if you like what you read, and I didn't scare you away, please send me a PM, and let me know about yourself. Please describe where you are from, what you look like, and a bit about your hobbies or life! And maybe what interested you in my ad? I prefer to chat via WhatsApp, discord or telegram, but other options may apply if you are the right one!

Hope to talk to you soon!