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22 [F4A] #Indonesia - Seeking platonic caregiver for genuine connection!
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pinkanoodle is a female age 22 looking for anyone in Indonesia
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Heyo, my name is Nana!! :3. I'm a 22-year-old age regressor from Indonesia, and I'm currently seeking a sfw caregiver (any gender!). I'm aromantic, panromantic, and asexual.

I'm looking for a genuine connection with a caregiver who shares my political beliefs and moral values, such as being feminist, socialist, and pro-choice, in addition to providing care, support, and companionship ♪(* * )♪ (this is a dealbreaker)

I'm a strong principled person and i have strong boundaries (INFJ-T here :p), so please do not try to "test" me ^

Me and CGL:

I'm still relatively new to CGL, only about 2 years in, but I'm eager to learn and grow in this dynamic with a caring and nurturing CG by my side. It feels like being a little/middle is just a natural part of who I am. I have a childlike personality, mannerisms, and thoughts, and I've always desired a parental figure who can protect me, make me feel safe and happy, and accept me without judgment for my likes and personality. I want someone who can guide me to be a better version of myself, and that's why the CGL dynamic resonates with me so much. When I'm in little space, I love expressing myself through cute clothes, baby talk, imagination, cartoons, stuffies, drawing cute things, playing cute games, and enjoying cute food and drinks! However, even outside of little space, my natural personality is still that of a little/middle, and I feel most comfortable when I can express myself freely.

Relationship Expectations:

I am open to building a meaningful connection with a caregiver who is kind, understanding, and serious about being a caregiver. I value communication, trust, and mutual respect in a relationship. I would appreciate if you understand that i can't always interact 24/7 due to my physical and mental illnesses. I need my space. I'm not particularly a clingy little, so if you are looking for one, i'm not the right one for you. Healthy relationship builds with healthy boundaries, understand that if you want to pursue a relationship with me, you will have to be patient because i want to create a relationship based on slow pace instead of rushing into it immediately.

What I'm Looking for in a Caregiver:

Shares my political beliefs and moral values, such as being feminist, socialist, and pro-choice Soft and kind Very supportive and caring Does not raise their voice or shout during arguments, as I find such behavior mean and manipulative (unless their partner enjoys it) Willing to accept my flaws and imperfections Willing to learn about my physical and mental health conditions Encourages me but does not force me Can offer constant reassurance and words of affirmation, as I tend to doubt myself and struggle with decision-making What I Can Offer to My Caregiver:

Genuine companionship and emotional connection Deep conversations and meaningful interactions Support and understanding in return Mutual respect and consideration for your feelings Willingness to learn and grow together in the caregiver/little dynamic Appreciation for your care and efforts in taking care of me Creativity and artistic expression, as I enjoy drawing and coloring Willingness to listen and provide emotional support to my caregiver as well, as I understand that caregivers also have their own needs and struggles Openness to exploring and understanding your interests, hobbies, and desires Willingness to communicate and share thoughts, feelings, and concerns in a safe and non-judgmental environment Respect for your boundaries and consent in all aspects of our relationship Appreciation for your role in my life and recognition of the value you bring as my caregiver If you read everything here please send me a message with a code "boba tea" :3 Willingness to reciprocate care in ways that are within my capabilities and comfort level Gratitude and acknowledgement of your efforts, time, and energy in providing care and support to me My general interest:

Art, classical music, indie music, alternative music, pop music, history, literature, novels, manga, anime, cute cartoon, j-style, Lol**a style, dolette style, coquette aesthetic, emo aesthetic, alt aesthetic, gloomy aesthetic, gloomy weather, grunge fairycore aesthetic, documentary, horror movies, thriller movies, rom-com movies, drama movies, photography, beautiful/peaceful/quiet place, spicy food, boba, tiktoks, cute pinky stuff, plushies, sanrio, horror games, true crime stories, feminism, socialism,psychology, mental illness., coloring, drawing. I have a wide range of knowledge and can engagein conversations about various subjects.

My health issues:

I want to be transparent that i suffer from SLE (Systemic Lupus Erythematosus), BPD(Borderline Personality Disorder), OCD (Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder), ADHD (Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder), and CPTSD (Complex Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder). So, i would need extra care :3 and if i took a long time to respond messages please understand that my arthritis and physical/mental challenges are the one who caused that, i would never ignore your messages, i'm mostly in pain all the time due to my disabilities.

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