Hello there. I've been learning a lot about myself the past couple years and one of the things I've learned is that being in a caregiver/mentor role really feels good. I like making other people feel good, feel safe, and feel like they're doing good for me. I had something that was approaching thus dynamic a little while ago and I'd really like to find someone I can really lean into it with.

Outside of bed I'm very gentle. I am deeply in love with hugs, cuddles, forehead kisses, praise and encouragement. I'm a good listener. I believe deeply in helping people achieve their goals in life, in their relationships, or just in the moment. I believe deeply in validation and in listening.

In bed I just want to fuck your brains out and I want to do it frequently. I like it rough. I like toys, power dynamics, collars, choking.

From you, I want to feel wanted. I want to feel needed. I want to be the person you depend on, the person you come back to after each time you venture forth to learn about yourself. I want a girl who has a near-unlimited capacity for affection, as I do. Someone who loves to cuddle. Someone who is deeply in love with pleasing their partner. Don't worry, I'll definitely take care of you there too, haha.

Obviously this kind of dynamic builds over time. It doesn't pop up like magic in the first message by virtue of both of us wanting it, and it doesn't happen overnight either. But I'm hoping that we'll get lucky and find each other anyway.

I'm poly, I have a couple partners, that isn't changing. I'm not looking to be an exclusive partner for you, either----after all, I want you to be happy and you should be free to do things that make you happy.

Ideally you're younger than me, because it helps with the mentor feeling, but that's not a hard and fast rule for the right person. If you think any of this sounds like you, and you think I might sound like someone you want in your life, I hope you reach out. I'd love to get to know you. 🙂