Hey everybody!!!

I'm a 31 year old male living in the southeast. I've been hanging out in these communities and have met some fun people responding to ads but nothing has REALLY clicked for me so I wanted to try posting my own :)

What I'm looking for:
A bubbly, sweet, maybe sometimes a little bratty sweetheart to settle down with and spoil with all the love and kisses and structure she needs. I am interested primarily in a long term IRL relationship but I'm happy to do the LDR thing at the start if need be. Very comfortable with that dynamic. Those who are closer in distance will be given priority, though!

I am very physical and caring, a great communicator and an excellent partner if my exes are to be believed. I have been in a few long term relationships in my life, 2 of which involved CG/l to some degree and I find it to be a really important dynamic for me. I feel like it engenders a certain kind of vulnerability that's really hard to come by otherwise and I love it very much. I think I'm a pretty solid catch, message me and let's get to know each other

A little about me:
I'm 31 and a hopeless romantic. I find myself struggling to meet people in the typical spaces and don't have much luck on dating apps. I am a bit of an introvert so it's difficult for me to get out there. Reddit helps with that! Vanilla interests include film, literature, TV, gaming, all the typical nerd stuff. I really like binging TV shows and making littles smile too :) I can carry a conversation about most anything and have been told I'm quite funny. I'm a good time, don't be afraid to reach out!

Kinks:
Sexual AR, teasing, BDSM, collaring/ownership, orgasm denial, diapers, forced regression, rules, watersports, lots more we can get into as we get to know each other. Hard limits are non-monogamy of any kind, permanent damage and bloodplay. Most anything else (within reason) is negotiable.

Dealbreakers:
Please be 23 , no college students. It's important to me that you have real life experience and have been in the adult world for some time. I do not enjoy feeling like I'm taking advantage of others.
Please be within the US, international distance is not workable for me.
No conservatives need apply
No poly/other forms of ENM
I am seeking someone who is AFAB at this time, though I love you and you are valid as hell trans queens
I am -somewhat- in shape and I would like for you to be too, no need to be a gym freak but taking care of my body is something that's really important to me

That's all I can think of to write for now. Really, I'm just out here trying to fall in love and make somebody VERY happy. I'm very lonely but I have a lot of love I'd like to spread. If you're tired of being lonely or dealing with flaky dudes, I got you. Let's be happy together.

PLEASE reach out if you are at all interested in getting to know me. I don't bite! I am more than happy to share pics after a few messages.

I can't wait to hear from you!!!!!!