This might be a big ask. I'm a 44 year old princess who has been through so much. I left a 17 year long abusive marriage at the cost of my relationship with my parents. I found my high school sweetheart after 25 years and not only are we both kinky now, (and polyamorous) it turns out that he has become my Daddy and loves our dynamic.
Recently I had found someone online that seemed too good to be true. And he was. Not in a malicious way, more in a trying to keep me in his life way. He thought he wanted to be a caregiver but it was too much for him.
Without going into too many details my little heart was broken. My Daddy is neurodivergent and has trouble forming new habits, so he welcomed having another potential care giver in the mix. Daddy works third shift and is not around to put me to bed and make sure I take my medicine at a good time. He is also still building the habit of helping me take my morning meds. As soon as I get good at it he forgets for a few days. He is always surprised when I point out that he missed making sure I took my pills. And then he feels bad.
So I thought maybe someone would like to step in and help with some of these routines. I would love a friendly uncle that I could chat with and share my bright and colorful personality with. Maybe you could give some tips for my Daddy too.
At this very moment I am not ready for anything sexual or more romantic than light flirting. My littlespace is completely non sexual and I don't like to have that part of me sexualized. I won't rule out anything romantic but I have been through a lot of trauma and had my trust broken. If you did want romance or sex it would definitely take time to earn my trust. But I think it would be worth it. I'm also completely open to keeping things completely platonic. I guess what I'm saying is just let me go at my own pace.
So what would I expect from my Uncle? Conversation, encouragement, help establishing routines and rules. A guiding hand from someone more experienced than me and my Daddy.
And what will I give? Smiles, plenty of selfies of my bright and unique self. And the privilege of seeing me grow as a little from your experience. And silliness. And and... Something something princess power!
Crossing my fingers and toes and all my stuffies fingers and toes 💓
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