I am a self-identified daddy dom looking for a baby girl / little / however you choose to identify, ideally for an ongoing arrangement. I wouldn't call what I am looking for a relationship, but I am still looking to genuinely bond and grow closer to a certain special someone.

About me: recent graduate school graduate, philosophy nerd. 6'2", slender, broad shoulders and big arms, long wavy hair that falls over my ears, glasses, beard, tattoos. I love coffee, hot sauce, science fiction, and buying too many books.

I've always kind of seen myself as a gentle giant–I am a fairly taciturn, cerebral person, who enjoys making other people feel good. I love the idea of taking care of someone, whether emotionally, or physically. I want to be someone who can be there for you when you're feeling down, or you are just excited about something. I want to praise you for doing a good job, and just encourage you to keep going, to do more, to do better.

Some more kink-related clarifications, and disclaimers. I am amenable to ageplay, but it is not important to me one way or the other. That being said, I'm not into ABDL at all. My partner regressing to babylike behavior does not appeal to me. If it's your thing, that's totally cool, no kink-shaming, more power to you, but it's not for me. I do like feigned helplessness, innocence, clingly-ness, a desperate need to make your partner happy, to satisfy their needs, and make them feel good, by any means necessary (within reason). I guess for posterity, what I am looking for is more like a 'middle."

While I would still like us to bond emotionally, and really get to know each other, the sex component is essential to what I am after. I do like rough sex, but I can also be into more gentle sex too. I like cock worship / deepthroating, assplay (giving), group sex, roleplay, dirty talk, edging, orgasm control, sensory play, breath play, light bdsm, exhibitionism, public sex, teasing, etc.

Important for me to establish too that while I will respect a desire not to rush anything, I don't want to beat around the bush either. I am looking for someone who is very sexual and has a desire to fulfill that need promptly. Relatedly, it would be a waste of both our time if we weren't attracted to each other, so I find it's a good idea to get that part out of the way early on so we don't find out later we spent all this time getting to know someone who is not our type. That being said, I understand and respect the need for privacy and necessity for caution, as a woman on the internet, especially on Reddit.

I want to be able to foster a space of trust where you feel safe to share more about yourself with me. I know that doesn't happy right off the bat, but I will do my best to make you feel at ease, so that we can both have a fulfilling experience, however it takes shape. More than anything, I just want someone who has a certain set of desires or needs to be met, can meet them without shame or inhibition. Everyone deserves to have an adequate sex life that makes them happy and feel confident about themselves. Let me do my best to give that to you.

Message me and we can discuss more details!