Looking for someone to get to know… share parts of our day, snuggle, color, watch movies, go on adventures - in and out of the bedroom. I’d prefer someone with some real-life experience with ddlg, not just online. But I’m willing to make exceptions if we click.

I have years of experience in both bdsm and ddIg. Happy to talk about kinks whenever you’re comfortable. I have a FET profile I am happy to share. Looking for a relationship where kink/ ddlg is part of our dynamic, not the only thing. I’m more of a daddy/soft-pleasure dom, but can get firm and rough once we’re comfortable with each other.

I tend towards the softer/daddy Dom side of things. If you’re looking for a sadist, I’m not your guy. But when I know my partner enjoys the pain, I can enjoy giving it.

I've been a teacher for the better part of 22 years, and that definitely has helped shape who I am as a dom. I want to help my sub/little be a better person. I will only make rules for that reason, never just to have rules. I am a natural caregiver, nurturer and love to cuddle. I will be your biggest cheerleader, but I also have no problem calling you out on your shit. I'd be lying if I said I didn't like some brattiness. I find that way more attractive than a princess who says “yes sir” automatically.

Exactly what I'm into as far as kinks go depends a lot on what the other partner enjoys. I don’t go very far on the "weird and wild" spectrum, but I enjoy exploring with the right person/chemistry.

Vanilla me: I'm a 45 year old reading tutor, urban surrealist painter and a geek: I love art, books, music, movies/pop culture (Star Wars, Marvel, Disney, Dune). Most of my art deals with graffiti and ancient artifacts/ mythology. I love learning new things. More into cuddles and movies at home, bonfires and music, or fun dates (going to parks, festivals, museums… road trips to explore new places) vs a loud bar or party. I'm not a sportsball person at all

I am hoping for an in-person relationship at some point, so being within some hours of central Ohio helps a lot. I don’t have an issue with long distance if there’s a connection.. and it will be in-person at some point in the not too distant future. I know a relationship doesn’t just happen. I want to get to know you… the silly weird quirks, the deep thoughts, laugh our asses off together.

I love deep conversations (sapiosexual for sure) and enjoy sending text (and/or)voice messages on/off through the day. I’m very much into “good morning/good night” texts once we get to know each other. Communication, consistency and mental health awareness are musts.

There are photos of me in my profile because physical attraction matters. I’d like to see one of you sooner than later.

📚 Sorry about the length of the post, but I think it’s good for everyone to have an idea of what they might be getting into.

Tell me a little about yourself when you send a chat please.