Hello! I hope you're having a nice day/night. ^Pssssst, there's a secret in the post so please be sure to include it!

Getting to know me -

I'm 25, currently residing in New York State, and I work from home. I'm plus-sized, heavily left, redheaded, and 5'8. I do struggle with generalized anxiety, depression, and ADHD, and I'm on the spectrum.

I enjoy gaming, gardening, spiritual/witchy stuff, arts and crafts, sewing, knitting, tinkering/fixing/building, collaborative writing/RP'ing, and stuff like that!

I'm genderfluid(AFAB if you're curious), panromantic, and on the asexual spectrum. This, for me, means I experience varying levels of sexual interest at different times. Sadly, I can't predict what happens, so it's important to keep this in mind!

I'm looking for another primary. My partner does live with me but I'm not looking for or to be a secondary. I'm looking for a long-term relationship that will be equal to any other relationship! Either this or friends. :P

I wholeheartedly support kitchen table poly and I also practice non-hierarchy. "Primary" speak is usually for hierarchy but I feel that the word is useful to describe the relationship I'm going for. If that makes sense. 😅

This next bit is what sort of dynamic I'm looking for -

I've been in many different roles but I'd say that flexible with what I am! I can be strict and a brat tamer or just a big ol' softie depending on you. 💕

I want to be someone you can rely on, talk about anything and everything, give you a safe space to express yourself and give you lots of love. Having this returned and both of us providing a healthy balance is also really important!

Please be sure to include your favorite animal or favorite color if you decide on messaging!

I tend to be someone who leans more toward a nonsexual dynamic and something that is naturally going 24/7. However, there are always times when it should stop and that's important to heed!

I really enjoy being around middles, littles, brats, pets, switches, and anything in between! I'm okay with diapers as long as they're only used for comfort/"that time" for uterus havers. We can talk about this more if you decide on messaging!

I'm a hopeless romantic and my number one love language is quality time. I would love to one day reach a point where we could send each other some cute care packages and love letters filled with YOUR COLORINGS or anything else you LOVE AND CUTENESS AND I COULD EVEN MAKE YOU YOUR OWN STUFFIE and stuff like that! Future stuff, y'know? :P

Annnnddddd, with that -

Thanks for reading! If you're interested in messaging, please know that I respond faster to DMs as the chat function doesn't work well on mobile. D:

As an extra side note, I mainly use Discord but only switch after we've talked for a while! Hope you have a nice day/night. 💖