-Who am I?-

Hi! My name is Singularity (on Reddit at least) and I identify as a non-binary person assigned female at birth. I am a Gemini, for those who are interested. My pronouns are she/they and I enjoy expressing my femininity in various ways. I work as a designer and I have a passion for creativity and aesthetics. On a personal level, I follow a pagan path, embrace my queerness, and indulge in digital art. I also love reading and writing, especially about topics that challenge me intellectually and spiritually. Whether it’s about divinity, cosmos, intimacy, or society, I’m always up for a stimulating conversation that lasts for hours.

-What so I want?-

I am looking for someone who has an acute attention to detail. To me, there is nothing more attractive than someone who matches my psychological need for structure. My mind craves someone to hold the reigns and allow me to give my thoughts over to my Dom/me.

My ideal situation would involve someone who is looking to control many aspects of my life. I want to make as few decisions as possible. I want someone who is interested in tracking my schedule, my mood, my books I'm reading, the media I am consuming, etc. I am looking to give over an enormous amount of control to someone who is willing to truly take it. I spend a lot of my day making decisions and managing projects. My dream is to come home and not even have to so much as think about what I have to do next or say next. I want someone who truly craves that high level of control.

I am someone who is very adept with technology. I am no genius, but it would be nice if you also shared that sentiment. I prefer to use Discord to chat long-term. I like to use digital journals for trackers, apps for tracking locations, apps tracking my rules and chores, etc. I want someone who is willing to explore and take initiative in making our dynamic fulfilling and constant in 2023.

I won't lie, I am someone who has the ability to text a lot due to the nature of my job. I work a lot and hang out with friends a lot, but I am free often to do things like phone calls, video calls and gaming together and watching shows together and so on so forth. I am by no means saying you have to give me constant attention. I would, however, would like someone who is also able to spend a bit of time with me and text me pretty consistently throughout the day. I am living in the eastern time zone in the US currently and tend to work around 10-7. Ideally, my Dom/me's schedule would compliment mine.

I am not a hyper-sexual person. I don’t dislike it, but I am certainly not interested in a sex-centered relationship. It can certainly be a facet, but I don’t want it to become the goal of the dynamic. My goal in this dynamic would be predominantly psychological. Truthfully, if you are able to grasp the mental aspect of the dynamic that I am looking for, your chances for sexual attraction following is pretty high.

For me, I love for my Dom to be somewhere in the Mommy/Daddy Dom realm. I enjoy things like CG/l and the many things that come along with it. I do enjoy a stern hand, but I would hesitate to call myself quite a slave. I want someone who is equally as comfortable cuddling with me while I color as they are punishing me for breaking a rule.

I am eventually looking to relocate and have an in-person dynamic. Online is perfectly okay for a while and is in-fact preferred. I do not, however, want to be in a dynamic with no future beyond online. Also, and maybe this is a bit silly, but I have two cats who are non-negotiable, so just be aware that they will be coming with me.

Lastly, what is my ideal Dom/me's personality? Ideally they would be someone who is confident, successful, a go-getter. I would say that I am fairly successful and I am looking for someone who can match my energy in always wanting to better themselves. You do not need a ton of money or prestige, but wanting a good life is an attractive trait. Ideally, they would be someone caring and attentive, mature, but with the ability to be strict and stern if need-be. I would love for my Dom/me to have an idea of what they want out of a sub as well and who is willing to work on and grow a unique dynamic.

If you made it this far, thank you! Send a message my way. I would love to meet you. Until then <3