Hey there, fellow CG/L community!
Hope you're all doing awesome. I wanted to take a moment and give you a sneak peek into who I am and what I'm looking for exactly since the title might seem a bit vague. So, let's go beyond the surface stuff. Looks matter less to me than the chemistry and vibes we share to make that clear in the beginning, just be healthy where you have the influence on it. Cool? Cool.
As mentioned, I'm a switch, and yes, I can provide a very detailed list of kinks besides diapers which I'm into. But for now, let's focus on the most important stuff since I'm looking for a relationship where I can finally settle:
When it comes to my personality, I'm all about being authentic, empathetic, and a bit of a nerd. I value honesty, tolerance, and having a good sense of humor. I'm pretty open-minded, always up for trying new things, and I'm a big believer in doing good for others. Oh, and did I mention that I'm a total idealist, always dreaming big?
I'm the kind of person who enjoys both cozy nights in as well as epic social adventures. I can be the chill, calming presence or a total goofball, bringing laughter and smiles with my dry sense of humour and irony. I'm what you call an ambivert, which means I'm down for some quiet time as well as being the life of the party.
In life, my main goal is to live carefree and happy. Picture this: a cozy house in the woods, surrounded by nature, my loving partner by my side, and a pack of five adorable huskies. Making a positive impact in the world, fighting for what's right is a powerful source of motivation for me. Social justice and equality are my jam.
I work in IT, self-employed. I love feeling emotions through singing the music I listen to - or giving littles a good time with voice acting while reading something aloud. Nothing beats belting out a killer tune or bringing characters to life with my voice. Most people in my life say they're quite hyped when I'm in the kitchen, so get ready for some delicious meals made with precision, aesthetics and experience. Besides that, gaming has always been my passion and ultimately paved the way for getting into singing and cooking.
As you might've guessed until now, music is a big part of my life. If you like alternative metal, alternative rock, metalcore and emo, we're most likely on a good foundation. However, don't be surprised if you catch me jamming out to some totally different genres too. I love exploring new sounds and expanding my musical horizons. Send me your Spotify blend link, a playlist or let me know which bands you've seen live so far!
Last but certainly not least, the serious stuff. What am I looking for?
I tend to state for myself that I'm gray asexual, because I have never had a need or craving for classical (genital/penetrative) sexual intercourse as most heteronormative persons, but there are things that excite me, like ageplay, diapers and more. For that I am the opposite of aromantic. I'm looking for someone with whom I can make your and my life. From this follows for me that I consider the personal development as very important. I'd like to find a person I can accompany through their ups and downs and vice-versa. I would like a relationship, where you push (without pressure, more on the encouraging side) each other to become the best version of yourself. I am looking for someone to build a very deep primal trust with in which the "vanilla" sex-practices are not the most intimate thing you share. Yes, I also seek physical closeness like cuddles, very much so. But this is of no use if the interpersonal basis does not fit. In such a constellation, it is ultimately irrelevant where you get sexual satisfaction if for example you would still need this.
If you vibe with what I've shared and you're looking for a real and meaningful connection that goes beyond the surface, I'd be stoked to get to know you better. I'd like to close this post with a quote of my favorite band:
"Do you care to be the layer of the bricks that seal your fate?
Or would you rather be the architect of what we might create?"