I’ve finally hit the big 3-0 and I’ve never had a true D/s relationship before and I feel overwhelmingly this is the time to do it. I want to have a blow out summer filled with wild stories and a sub who I can’t keep my hands off of. Ideally I’d like this to become long term thing and go much further than just the summer, but this year I want to live in the heat of the moment.

To cover the basics; physically, I’m 6’ tall, I gave thick dark brown hair, green eyes that change hue based on what I’m wearing, an athletic complexion with some tone, and I’m white but not pale. I’m told I’m “very attractive”, but I’ll let you be the judge as I’m very open to sending a picture.

As a daddy, I tend fall a bit on the softer side. I prefer praising my sub and putting her on a pedestal where she belongs. However, I will be strict and punish when I need to in order to deal with brattiness and I will enjoy every minute of it. Other times l’ll be a bit cruel and test you until you’re begging and telling me I can do whatever I want as long as you have my attention. I love the ebb and flow cycle of control that occurs between me and my sub for control: she’s bratty, I remind her where she belongs, I get cocky and she reminds me how lucky I am and that everyone wants something like her, she gets bratty, I remind her where she belongs. Always pulling one another into each other like two objects locked in a tidal dance.

My kinks are light bondage and impact play, lingerie, teasing/edging, training (especially anal), free use, semi-public play, and toys. Negotiable, but i’m interest in expiring sharing, exhibitionism, voyeurism, and cuckolding.

Outside of kink I have a good paying and stable job. I have many hobbies such as playing guitar, snowboarding, I travel frequently, photography, cooking, and many other things…I love to learn! As far as my personality goes, I would say i’m a good balance between that wise old soul that can talk about my thoughts on why we’re here and that youthful spirit that will try to get you out stargazing at 3am and start to feel you up haha. I’m loyal, driven, dynamic, understanding, and I will always treat you right.

As far as what I want, I would love to mold the perfect sub. I want us to learn each other so well that we know exactly what buttons to press and how far to push before hitting the limit. I love brats, I love being made jealous so I can show my possessiveness and remind you where you belong, I love someone who’s expressive and communicative. I prefer someone who takes care in themselves, open to any age but I prefer younger. I don’t mind what your experience is as long as you’re open and a fast learner. I’d prefer someone somewhat local or can some stay at my lake house for an extended period of time.

Anyway, if you feel you fit this description, you’re kinky, and you’re cute, I please reach out! I’m really excited to see where things could go :)