First thing first! I'm autistic and that colors every experience I have. If you won't do any research to understand how my brain works, I ain't the boy for you. (That being said, I'm more than willing to tell you about how it affects me specifically how to tell when I'm getting overwhelmed.)

I'm a 5'8 3/4" white trans guy (ftm) that IDs as genderqueer. I'm sterilized, but I've still got all my bits (except my fallopian tubes lmao). I weigh around 170lb rn. I've been on testosterone since early 2020, which has made me hairy.

I'm a type of aromatic but I haven't figured out which. Love sex, but never been actually sexually attracted to anyone. I'm solo Polyam. I can love people without falling in love with them! I don't expect anyone to want just me and I don't want just any one person.

I'm a good boy, and I love praise. Diapers are on the table if you'd like to do them. LOVE being spoiled. Love being dressed up and undressed as long as I'm being praised. I'm into "forced" infantilization. And I do age regress (no idea how old).

I love nursing, and I'll happily try taking a bottle if we can't do that! I have an eating disorder that makes it hard for me to keep on weight — so a CG/Daddy/Mommy that wants to work within my sensory issues and feed me gets extra points 🤣

I wanna go on cute dates and have pictures taken of me! I'm exploring my inner exhibitionist currently, so I'm very interested in photos, and play parties.

The rough stuff:

I don't fuck with bigots, fascists, or jerks. I'm actively converting to Judaism, and if that sounds like a problem to you, keep it moving.

Spankings and petplay are off the table. I can't do it. I have other hard limits listed on my fet, but these are the most applicable to this subreddit.

I'm very shy in littlespace. I wanna cuddle, but sometimes it becomes too much for me and I need to not be touched for a little while 😢. I need reassurance, but I'm not particularly clingy. Reassurance is even important when I'm Big because I have Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria.

My autism diminishes the amount of interests I have, but my adhd keeps me moving from one interest to another. If you need someone to pretend to be interested in things, I'm not your guy. That being said, I'm not a boring conversationalist — it's just easy to see when I'm not interested in a topic. There will be misunderstandings, because my brain works differently, and I need someone who is willing to consistently take a step back and help me try to figure out who misunderstood what and where. I need the meta-conversations in order to understand what's going on sometimes. All that being said, if you make it clear that you want me to pretend/mask for you, I won't be able to feel like I can trust you anymore.

I am a part of Michigan's BDSM community. You're not going to get away with abusing me, because I can see the signs and have too many friends to warn me. I will not stop any part of my life for you. I will not cut anyone in my life off for you. I will not cull parts of myself off for you.

I'm willing to drive up to an hour, but I refuse to always be the one to drive. I'd prefer our first few meet-ups to be at munches. I'm willing to give my fet name via dms so you can see which ones I go to. I'm a switch in other bdsm aspects, but always a Little in cgl/ddlb/mdlb.

Let me be a good boy for you!