---Who am I?

I am 6’4” and weigh roughly 240 pounds. I probably have ADHD which leads me into basically any kind of hobby. I’m not even kidding. Like you name it and I’ve either done it or want to. Hiking? Skiing? Sailing? Kayaking? Mountain biking? Endurance riding? Weight lifting? Paint balling? Leather working? Home remodels? Running multiple businesses? Yep, check check and check. All of the above lol. It gets even more random the more I think about it…. There is most of just about everything on my list which is best for you because I’m happy no matter what we are doing as long as I’m with you. I also LOVE to learn and get to know your hobbies and interests so I can enjoy them with you. There is nothing like watching someone’s face light up with such joy and excitement, watching the complete happiness wash over their face as they do whatever it is that they love!

---A little history of me

I grew up in south Florida and have had a very…. Practice life if you could say that. I grew up very close and very tight with family, helping them with whatever I could. This expanded as I got older and my responsibilities picked up. Although I didn’t exactly have the most amount of time to have a “typical” childhood, I did grow to become very used to responsibilities and maturity. Although I am not older, I have been described by everyone as “older at heart” or something like that. An old soul if you will? Needless to say, I don’t really resemble other men around my age. I am very level headed, trauma friendly, and don’t have a history of mental health issues or problems. I am incredibly calm under pressure and I do NOT play any mind games (the bad kind) with whoever I’m with. I don’t lie, I don’t cheat, I don’t ghost people and I sure as hell won’t treat them with disrespect or rudeness.

---What is most important to me?

Communication and honesty. While many many things are just as important to me, I think it is most important to clarify here that honesty and communication is probably most important (aside from the obvious of safe words and consent). To be able to have a healthy dynamic of any kind. Be that bedroom only, DDLG or Master/Slave dynamics, communication and honesty with each other about EVERYTHING is key. Mutual respect and no kink shaming of course is a must as well. Communication about what is or isn’t working. Honesty revolving around how each person is feeling and any other thing that may be going on is paramount to a HEALTHY relationship or dynamic.

---Other must haves for me

Consent. I will NOT partake in any kinky play, dynamic or relationship that has not been thoroughly talked about beforehand. SSC (safe, sane and consensual) is an absolute must. Safe words as well are non negotiable for me. Aftercare is a necessity both for me and for you. Whatever that aftercare may look like: Cuddling, silence, sleep, holding each other, bathing/cleaning up one another. Whatever it is, I don’t care. Aftercare is a need and whatever your needs for aftercare are, I will happily Give whatever is needed.

---What am I looking for? What is my dream dynamic?

Hmmm…. My ideal dynamic. Well, I have given a lot of thought to that over the years and it’s interesting because I never come up with a solid answer. My ideal dynamic starts out with a set of bare bones. Those bare bones being: mutual trust, respect, care for each other, need and want for the dynamic and to please each other (SFW and nsfw) in the dynamic. I have said this many times in the past and I’ll say it again. I won’t get into anything you aren’t 110% enthusiastic to try. Now the rest of my ideas for the “perfect” dynamic change, quite often on my feelings of being dominant. Oh I’m also a kinky fuck so that also makes it harder to pinpoint 😂 I’m into it all soooo I’m also VERY flexible. Aaaaanywhooo, there are times where I fantasize of having this “perfect sub” where she has her rules, tasks, protocols, everything that we have trained into each other to a T and that is what our lives are like. That perfect blend of submission, relationship and vanilla life. Where you are trained to do things a certain way, learn different hand signals that mean different things so we can even have a scene non verbally if that makes sense. You would have ways you are expected to behave in public (in normal ways, dw lol). I would pick your outfits for you etc. basically TPE. Think if James Bond were kinky. Having that lifestyle, but also in a very classy and normal way…. In public. Other times I want a very playful, bratty dynamic. Where there aren’t a lot of strict must behave rules and potocols, obviously those are nice, but when they are made to be bratted on for that fun little always fresh and new and exciting power play dynamic. Every day is something new for us and it keeps us, more so you. ALWAYS on your toes because we never know what could happen next. Then I also have the feeling where I love love LOOOOVE kind of a DDLG, very caring and nurturing and close dynamic. Not having super strict rules, just focused on us, ofc kink involved and punishments in all of these dynamic ideas. But kind of a vanilla relationship, but with a very nicely seasoned sprinkle of kink and power play in it. And literally anything in between those 3 in every way. That’s what I see is the perfect dynamic. A mix of all of those :). And all mixed up with that. Unwavering passion, closeness, trust, ROMANCE PLEASE. Desire and lust for each other. A complete ride or die. You know everything about me and I know everything about you and we would do any and everything for each other. And also a type of casualness and comfort that if we sat down to watch a movie, I would casually play with you and touch you and tease you just for fun. It doesn’t have to go anything further than that. Oh and not just one way, it goes both ways so you can do that to me as well, but having a dynamic and or relationship like that, where we are so comfortable with each other that something like that is just normal for us and we don’t think twice about it just sounds so perfect.

---Who am I looking for?

Well, that is also very flexible. I am looking for a woman preferably no older than 28 years old.

---KINKS

Anal (probably my biggest kink), Ownership, free use, CNC, TPE, orgasm control, sleep play, denial, fisting, watersports, bondage, deepthroat, breeding, punishment, breath play, slapping, predicament bondage, overall really rough sex, spitting, praise, worship, Cockwarming, i LOVE temperature play. I have a big oral kink, corruption, misogyny, DDLG, collaring, praise, training, impact play, objectification, pain, sexual pain, protective sadism. And many many more. For those of you who looove bondage like me I do have some restraints :)