Hi there! I'm a 29 year old pansexual D-type male. Well educated, nerdy, decent career, car, all that jazz. I have a large body type, with big hands, big thighs, big arms, and broad shoulders. I am about 5'11 in height. I'm literally built like a bear, with body hair too! Now that the boring stuff is out of the way:

I'll start off by saying I've been into online kink communities for a long, long time. I have played and had numerous online partners, but only one IRL encounter. The majority of my experience is in DD/LG (or DD/LB) and CG/L, but I also have a lot of experience in harder kinks & degradation, even those related to trauma or abuse, if you are interested in exploring that in a safe way.

I am more than happy to be both a sickly sweet father figure and/or a sadistic father figure depending on what you're into. I am interested in nearly every kink you can think of, and I'm happy to share my limits and interests in greater detail if you're interested in getting to know me.

As a former teacher, I have to be very careful with my identity, and I will only share personal information and pictures of myself if we hit it off.

I am sick of short and quick sexual related interactions. They don't do much for me anymore, and I'm interested in something more serious & long term that will bring me deeper fulfillment. As far as partners, I am open to any genders/orientations and I am trans friendly (I am very sorry but I am not interested in trans folks who are post op bottom surgery, top surgery is fine). I am not looking to play with any couples or with anyone in a relationship/dynamic.

I am also interested in making friends in the CG/L or BDSM lifestyle in general, and if so feel free to message me if you're up for some platonic chats about little space and little activities (I love getting new ideas to explore with my would be partner). If you are interested in a serious dynamic with me, read below:

My expectations of you:

1. Be communicative, tell me if you're not doing well, understand the basics of building a relationship. It's okay if you are new to kink, we can talk about it and explore things together.

2. Understand consent and boundaries. I am not going to play the guessing game with what is or isn't okay with you. Anyone with 'no limits' will be immediately ghosted as it's a foolish, immature thing to say and proves that you have absolutely no idea what you are doing.

3. Willing to put in a serious effort to follow any agreed upon rules or tasks and compromise where necessary. If you start ghosting me with no warning I am going to ghost you in return and seek out someone who is actually serious about this.

4. Have the same interests as myself. Honestly, my entire life is nerdy things. Anime, gaming, math, science, programming. It's what I like. 95% of my life is spent indulging these hobbies or working out. If you view these as "childish" or "immature", I frankly do not care. Move along.

5. Be willing to talk to me regularly on camera or voice chat. I would like some sexual interaction, but my primary interest in this dynamic is non-sexual in nature. Tell me about your day. Tell me about what you want from me. Tell me how good it feels to give me control. Tell me whatever you want. I want to be both your friend & your dominant, and I want you to be my friend & submissive.

6. Be willing to verify your age with some form of ID before we enter a dynamic. This is non-negotiable at this point for me, I am beyond tired of people lying about their age to me.

7. I don't mind an age gap, and it's perfectly fine if you are young (18 ), but please nobody over 40. It's hard for me to get into the right headspace if you are much older than me.

I'd love to know what your expectations of me would be! Feel free to introduce yourself in a message. If you don't think you can commit to my expectations, I'm happy to be platonic friends with you!