Hey redditors! My name is Dan, and if you'd like you can call me sir (no daddy or master yet...those titles are earned). I am just out of a long term kinky relationship and looking to get back into the game.

What I'm Looking for: Unfortunately I am not looking for another romantic relationship, so if that is what you need I apologize and hope you find what you want! That being said; I am searching for something closer to friends with benefits, with an emphasis on the kink portion of the relationship. Imagine this, you're my submissive, my slave, my pet, but of course you can come to me as a friend outside of kink! We can discuss this more on a person by person basis, each relationship is different so let's chat and see what works for us.

I am open to anyone really though I do have a preference for those that are femme leaning and presenting. Anyone above the age of 18, any race, any weight, or of any body type feel free to apply! I tend to be more attracted to intelligence and the mind, the looks are secondary.

A bit about myself: I am 20 years old, majoring in architecture, in the fourth (out of five) year of my undergrad degree. So as a result of just how challenging architecture can be and my own personal standards I put in an obscene amount of hours. But...I generally always have my phone on me and I am quite good at time management so communication is not an issue with me. Other than that I love what I do, architecture is a major passion of mine along with music, photography, writing, and reading. If you are into any of those things as well, great! Lets talk about it :)

I know looks may be important for some so: I am 5'10", slim/athletic build, brown hair and eyes, a beard that I mostly keep trimmed short, and I'm about 7 inches down there. I've been called handsome and good looking so do with that what you will.

What a relationship with me may look like: Again, each relationship is different so take this with grain of salt, but generally speaking...I tend to set a few rules that remain constant no matter what, breaking those rules would obviously result in punishment. Then I may set tasks for the day or the week that must be completed with a certain amount of competency. Throughout the week I may also pop in randomly and request that a task be carried out immediately, or as quickly as possible depending on your schedule. There would also be dedicated sessions in which we would both put aside time to play.

I would say I range from gentle to sadistic depending on the day, my mood, stress levels, and just how I'm feeling. I can be nice, but if you catch me on a bad day and you decide to brat out I will not hesitate to destroy you :) Our kinks and limits will be discussed privately.

Ok last thing I want to mention is that no matter who the relationship is with I use the red, yellow, green safe word system. That is a constant and is always respected no matter what.

Thanks for reading! Please put a bit of effort in your message to me, tell me about yourself, what you're looking for, what you liked about my post, just something please. I worked hard on this, so should you! Looking forward to meeting you all!