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26[M4F] #Chicago-Brat Tamer looking for local Sassy Brat
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HerrHatter is a male age 26 looking for a female in Chicago, IL
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This is for the sassiest girls. The ones who greet every new day with a stuck-out tongue. Who roll their eyes when being
told what to do. Those whose go to answer for everything is "Make Me". Girls who respond to those who demand their submission with a smirk and a middle finger, because they want their Doms to work for it.

Girls who want someone to see past that hard jagged exterior. Who want to be worn down and cracked open. Who will pretend not to be gooey and subby up until the point they are begging to cum. Who want to be "forced" into submission to
the point their head spins and those jagged edges are temporarily worn away.

Who are looking for someone who understands the game. That taming is never permanent. That they will always be bad and need constant attention and discipline. Who get wet at a certain look or raised tone when they know they've misbehaved, but keep pushing anyway. And do their best to creatively earn their funishments and punishments. Because the best bottom is a red and sore bottom.

Let’s chat Brat. If you think you have what it takes. Because I don't go easy or fair on Bratty butts. Bring your A game, or find yourself in over your head. I am supportive and compassionate most of the time. But when it comes to the Brat/Tamer game I play dirty. And I will comfort and cuddle you after of course, because at the end of the day there are no hard feelings between us for just doing our best to play the game that we both enjoy.

So yeah, I am looking for someone that can keep up with me. Someone who will speak her mind and make me work for her submission. Who wants to be subby when I make her so. Someone I can tease and be teased by. Someone who I can laugh with and cuddle. Who wants to play this bratty game together and makes me look forward to each day with a
smile. Followed by an exasperated sigh as she finds new way to be a little Brat.

For that girl here is what I bring to the table. Physically I am a 6ft tall white guy. I’m rather scruffy looking with hair down past my shoulders and a beard. I have what can, generously, be considered a dad bod but I’m working on firming it up, so don’t think I can’t overpower you. I tend to dress rather casually day to day but do clean up nicely. I’m told I have a rather good Dom voice when taming a brat. Which I use to great effect turning silly little brats gooey and horny. As for kinks it is focused on discipline, but not so strict that everything is a punishment, and not always sexual in nature. I am the type that
will push you to drink water and complete your tasks that you need to get done. If I think it’s for your own good bet your booty you are going to be doing it.

But I’m not strict all the time. If my post history isn’t clue enough, I am rather teasing. I like pushing buttons that leave both of us annoyed but laughing. Also, expect to be tickled until you wet yourself. I am a very touchy person so a lot of casual hugs and caresses will be given, as well as random smacks on the butt.

Tell me your favorite Funishment if you made it this far

SFW I am a college student with a Political Science Major and History Minor. I am currently working on my Bachelors, delayed due to covid, moving, and half a dozen major changes, with plans on PhD work going forward. I would like to work
either governmental or in a think tank with a focus on international conflict such as terrorism or war. Casually I am a total nerd and can usually be found reading, writing, or gaming. I love conventions and metal concerts but can be rather shut in otherwise at times. I don’t watch tv all that much but am a huge Star Wars fan. Most of my visual media is various YouTube videos split between history and gaming generally.

Tell me the last show you watched if you made it this far

What I am looking for first and foremost is someone relatively local to the Chicago area. I have tried LDR for me before and it just doesn’t work for me. I find that I have trouble telling context and reactions behind text messages and can misinterpret what was actually meant. This same uncertainty has led me to put my foot in my mouth on a few occasions because I couldn’t tell that she wasn’t bratty anymore. It just adds a layer of complexity I’d like to avoid. Also, I am a touchy person and like to feel the physical connection as well as the emotional one. As well as I have found that Brat Taming in particular is difficult in an LDR. It requires a lot of trust that if the Brat is punished that she will go through with it, which isn’t always the easiest to determine with a new LDR. As well as many punishments are less effective when given remotely vs IRL.

I am willing to travel a reasonable distance but naturally the closer the better. We don’t have to meet up right away but I
would prefer being able to meet in at least a SFW setting within a month of first starting to talk. It also goes that I am willing to flirt and sext online but won’t commit myself to a dynamic until we have met IRL. Age wise I am looking for 20 . I am getting to that age that talking to those below gets uncomfortable. As for upper limit I will talk to just about anyone and see where it takes us.

Tell me your favorite thing in Chicago if you made it this far.

One last time to reiterate, I am looking for Brats first and foremost. I have no problem with Littles but I have found time and again that I can be a bit much for those who are Littles first and Brats second. It has unfortunately led to unintentional hurt feelings before as stated and I want this to be fun for both of us. It is not just taunting arrogance as the reason I wrote the start of this ad the way I did, it’s a warning for those that need a softer Dom. I do have my soft and tender moments often, but when it comes to Taming, I play for keeps. And I am not ashamed to reiterate it has led to some
foot-in-mouth situations that I’d like to avoid repeating. But because Brats will call me out on them is part of the reason that I love them so much.

I want you to tease, taunt, and fight me. I don’t want a Sub that will give me their blind obedience. I respect their choices but they are not for me. I crave the validation of breaking you down and forcing your subbiness to leak out of you.
That when you call me Sir or Daddy or whatever title we choose its because I have proven myself able and willing to handle you and push your subby buttons. So, when you reach out don’t feel the need to call me any titles right off the bat, I’m sure I’ll earn them soon enough. Just as I won’t try to force you into submission right away. I’ll tease and taunt sure but I won’t expect any formal dynamic just because you decided to take a swing at me.

Feel free to ask any clarifications of the above, I am a rather open book.

Let’s have some fun ;)

Open your message with VIVA if you made it to the end.

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