Hi!

I'm a little, brat, pet who has cptsd so I have a few struggles that lead to it being hard for me to click with a dom or domme as they tend to push me too fast into a dynamic when I'm not ready so I'm looking for someone who can be understanding of what I've gone through.

My age range is 20 to 30. Please don't message me if you're outside of this, I really hate having to turn people down.

I like both genders and anything in between!

I am polyamorous and have a partner (who is my Dom and cg, I'm looking for a second Dom/domme and cg) so you would need to be okay with that as I'm not someone who functions well in monogamy.

When it comes to ddlg, I need someone who can take care of me, help with structure, rules, etc but still be understanding and accepting of my issues within the dynamic. I don't function well with a thousand rules, praise and guidance work best with me as many punishments push me too hard currently.

I don't use diapers but I do use pacis, teethers and kids toys.

My littlespace isn't always sexual, sometimes it's just for the comfort or relaxation so that's something to be aware of. I don't always want to be sexual when little, sometimes I just want cuddles and cartoons. I do practice age regression so if that's not for you thats okay!

I am a brat. I'm not looking to be tamed or trained into a good girl, the bratting is part of me and will not be trained away, I've let people try. I talk back, disobey small rules, find loopholes, comply maliciously and if you can't handle that, you need complete submission constantly I am not the sub for you. I need the back and forth, the banter, to feel truly safe and comfortable in a relationship and without it, I feel stifled and uncomfortable. That being said, I don't brat constantly, and it is never done without consent but it is a part of a dynamic with me.

When it comes to kink, I'm into a lot, my main no's are spit, urine, scat, needles, feet, abf/anr and threats (I know that's not a normal no but mentally I can't handle threats). Apparently I now need to add that I am fully against anything involving animals, I was asked that once and it made me nauseous to think about. I'm into knives, pain, choking, anal, bruises, collaring, 24/7 and a lot of others.

I don't enjoy rules that make me have to ask for permission to do things, I already struggle doing things on my own so having to ask for permission just makes things harder. Though I do enjoy having to check in, make sure what im doing is okay, etc if that makes sense, just not having to ask to use the bathroom or something like that. Other than that, I'm not super picky about rules, as long as we get to talk it out and remove those I'm not comfortable with.

Outside of kink, I work as a secretary/accounts receivable for a car parts company, I have 6 pets, I am obsessed with horror tv, anime, video games, learning new skills, knitting, cross stitching and a lot more.

I'm super nerdy, I play DnD, love LoTr, HP (though I'm not a fan of star wars), love debating and love to constantly talk about the things I'm into. I have 6 pets currently: 3 cats, 2 guinea pigs and 1 bunny.

I have ADHD which leads to me not being the best at quick responses unless it's discord and makes a super loud noise, I never mean to ignore anyone so if I do, its entirely an accident.

I'm 5'5, weigh about 170lbs, but its mostly muscle though I do want to drop about 30lbs eventually. I have naturally brown hair but its currently pink and red from dying it. I have multiple piercings and tattoos and plan on getting more.

If any of this sounds like we could vibe together well, please send me a message telling me about your absolute favorite horror movie (or most hated one if you're not a fan)! I likely will not respond if you do not answer my prompt here in some fashion. Too many people just ignore it and think I'll answer anyway. I hope to vibe with you ❤