42 [M4F/NB] Illinois, USA - Seeking online female/NB playmate and possibly more

Hey there, I'm a 42yo polyamorous male seeking a female online playmate. I've been involved in the bdsm lifestyle since 1999 and have extensive experience in several areas of play, including: impact play, praise kinks, aftercare and several others. I'm very detail-oriented and prefer to motivate and provide support before and during the activity rather than punish after so that's always my goal.

I'm quite protective and like to see my Submisives/Littles happy, healthy, well cared for and succeeding in life.

I'm ok with both sexual and non-sexual dynamic styles but I do require vetting and negotiations before we do more than chat. This is for both of us so feelings don't get hurt simply because something has been missed. I enjoy both mundane and lifestyle conversation; I have many hobbies (mostly writing adult content and I love talking about it) and love learning new things.

I'm looking for someone that enjoys being praised and reminded of their daily tasks. I'm a pretty open book, so if it's sexual in nature, I'm happy to discuss kinks and what we both want from the dynamic/play. If it's non-sexual that can be discussed as well, just please let me know up front so I leave out the sexual aspects from the beginning.

If you're interested in talking more, drop me a line here or a message and mention this sub. Please be aware that if you're partnered in some way and dating alone I will have to ask for proof that this is approved by your partner. A photo of me is on my profile

Thanks.