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So, this is kinda brave for me in it's own way I suppose. But as you can tell from the title, I've been a Daddy/Dom for over 8 years now. I've never had a submissive bone in my body, in or outside of kink.
But lately I've stumbled upon maybe an awakening? I don't know if it's as intense as that sounds. But in my constant research into kink and all things of this lifestyle over the years, I've sort of been intrigued over the idea of submitting to someone, maybe in just a short term thing, or maybe just to try and see how it feels, if it might be something I'd enjoy.
With my experience, I know how hard and scary it can be to submit to someone, or just be in a dynamic and trusting someone who was that position of power over you. I know firsthand the ups and downs, the process of getting to know someone and earning trust.
I guess my question/advice I'm looking for is; where do I begin to explore this curiosity? How do I test the waters?
I think it would take a whole lot for me to trust someone, with all the bad I've seen in this lifestyle unfortunately. But I do admire the parts of a dynamic that a submissive can receive. The loving care, the softness and closeness with one another. And yes Daddies can have needy moments too, but I'm thinking I might want to explore more of that side.
Any advice from someone who switches, or maybe just advice from subs/littles. I'd love to hear your thoughts!
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