So I’ve been involved in the cgl and kink community for a few years now mainly as a little and sub. However, I’ve always been curious if I’m a switch. In my daily life I’m the caregiver person just without others being little, I’m very nurturing and caring. That’s one of the main reasons I enjoy being little, because I am able to get out of that role and have it done for me and enjoy it in the ways I do. But I’ve also talked to littles, mainly in platonic ways and can’t help but sometimes want to take on that caregiver role with them and some I have before usually due to lack of confidence (I believe) that I was actually doing a good job and that they deserve better. It’s also very hard for someone with barely any experience like me to actually find someone to help me figure out that side of me. The times I have tried taking on the role with a little or switch, I loved it! But again, usually left for reasons. Does or has anyone else feel like this? Is this just me having a hard time getting out of my daily life of being the caregiver in my relationships with friends, family, etc?

Please be kind!