Hello. I've been interested and reading about CG/L lifestyle for almost 2 years and at this point, I'm certain it interests me. But how does one realize and/or enter such a commitment? I apologize if my question seems too broad, but I honestly have no idea, even though I've been searching the topic for quite a while.

Things that interest me the most: being cared for, having rules, having someone make the decisions for me, having a sense of security. I'm clingy and need reassurance, and that causes "friction" (for the lack of a better word) in relationships in general.

In essence, what I want to know is: how did you get here? If you're in a relationship, how did it come to be?

I appreciate you taking the time to read my thoughts. Any comments will be immensely helpful.

Happy New Year in advance :D