So here's the deal, I've had an absolutely incredible start to the year, and l've been itching to share some of these wins and joys with someone, so here I am lol. I'm absolutely killed it in school first of all, and I have finaly found my place in vet med which is probably my biggest win. My finals just ended and I'm already planning on my next steps (after a well deserved break). More on this if/when someone decides to drop me a line (gotta stay realistic ya know?). And I got to see Evanescence live right up front in the pits, which was a dream come true for my inner teenager. 🖤🤘🏻. Plenty more concerts planned for this year, including a trip to Minnesota for the renaissance fest which I did last year too.

Even though im single, I do not expect to find a partner here right away, however the intention is very much there to build something on those lines. I'm a bit of a slow burn being demi. I just want to meet a new alt pal to hang out with sometimes, share music, watch shows, and get high, without any expectations ya know? Just chill vibes while getting to know each other 😊. I'm LGBTQ friendly, childfree since I was 5, and absolutely love animals. In August, I adopted an absolutely adorable cat and he's definitely been an amazing first cat for me ❤️. He's the grey one in the other pictures. I've accumulated a huge collection of hobbies, interests, and activities, both indoorsy and outdoorsy.

I'm 59, 160 ish lbs, long black curly hair, a beard, glasses, and have tattoos, with plenty more in my future, and I also just got my eyebrow pierced. I don't believe in gender conformity nor do I believe in gender specific hobbies or roles in a relationship. These days I'm back to 3d printing, Japanese stationery, uv resin crafts, plants, photography, and astronomy lol. It's open season for whatever piques my curiosity in that moment so I keep cycling between stuff. Very 420 friendly, but don't drink for health reasons. I follow a high protein, low carb, no sugar diet and do my best to take care of mt health. I have also usually tested as INTP or INTJ so I swing between the two like a pendulum lol. I'm also highly pragmatic and mostly operate on curiosity and logic so I have a tendency to ask questions. A big fan of pebbling (irrespective of whether it's a romantic partner or not).

As far as school goes, I have a plan for the next few years which involves me studying a lot more than I initially planned on doing. Currently graduated as a veterinary technical assistant, but the end goal is to become a registered tech in surgery. Most of my life l've had a penchant for STEM subjects, but never had an opportunity to formally pursue education in the field, till now 😊. I already have a degree, kinda redoing life on my terms. l'm also no contact with my birth family, and have a chosen one instead , so no more walking on eggshells. It's been a long hard road to recovery for me, so I do feel like it's important to mention that I do have complex - ptsd, however it is very much managed and under control. And last but not least, my particular flavor of neurodivergence is audhd , and live with chronic pain, fibromyalgia(this is where the w**d comes in), I have my own house, a car and a life full of adventures 😁. I also grow my own 🌿 which has been an extremely rewarding experience as well.

You : Please be single, and childfree. 25 and location does not matter. also don't like texting for too long so calls are preferred please and ty. I'm also monogamous, and not dominant in any way at all (for those who care about it). I believe in effective communication versus constant communication, so there's never any expectation or pressure to give timely responses. I'd rather someone take the time to respond properly "when they can" instead of getting a half hearted response. "The need for instant gratification seldom leads to long term happiness.". That being said, I also don't appreciate passive aggressiveness, or silent treatments of any kind. Need space for whatever reason? Ask for it, I'm not a mind reader lol. And last but not least, someone who is self aware enough to recognize their own needs, feelings, and actions and can communicate them.

The end! Toodles!