IMPORTANT: I take putting myself out there seriously and want to ensure we’re not engaging with scammers or people with bad intentions. If we decide to move forward, I believe a phone or video call is a fair way to confirm we’re both genuine. I respect if this isn’t comfortable for you, but it’s important for me. Wishing you the best!

Hi,

I’ve been dating over the last few years and have come to terms with my need for a dynamic in my lifelong relationships—something out of the ordinary. So this may be a little out of pocket for the childfree (I am child free and do not want children) subreddit but I figured I’d give it a shot since I’m betting on us haha.

I am monogamous with a career in sales that lets me travel a good amount in which I am grateful for. The better I do the more I can travel as well. I am hoping for a partner who is also successful in their career and goals but maybe has some freedom to be able to stay at places from time to time in which I have to travel to. Not a deal breaker if not, though!

I am predominantly a switch, though I’ve leaned more submissive over the past couple of years. Power dynamics in this sexual aspect are very important to who I want to spend my life with. I want to find a partner who values, respects, and understands my needs. As I write this, I am more certain than ever that, to feel fulfilled, I need a loving partner whom I feel safe and deeply attracted to in order to fully submit. I’m sure many here can understand the yearning I’m speaking of, and I wish to have that yearning met, fully embraced and cared for by a loving life partner.

Physical attraction is important to me in a relationship, especially in the initial stages, though I understand it evolves with time. To ensure compatibility, I’d appreciate seeing SFW photos and arranging a video call to confirm we’re both real and serious about getting to know each other. I take this process seriously and want to avoid scammers or those with questionable intentions. If this approach feels uncomfortable for you, I completely respect that, and we can part ways here. Wishing you all the best in your search!

My person would be skinny, though height doesn’t matter to me. (I’m 5’6” if that matters to you, and I won’t be offended if it does.) We all have our preferences and deserve to have our needs met! I take my physical and mental health seriously. I work with a personal trainer 4–6 times a week, and I eat healthy most of the time. I also love to cook! My favorite cuisines are probably Mediterranean and Asian. Also just joined a flag football league for fun!

I like to read, and I’ve been making music and art my whole life, though I’m now focused on my sales career. I previously worked in healthcare sales for a long time, but I’ve since switched industries.

I’m a homeowner, but I’m not tied to my current location. It’s nice to have my own house, but a house becomes a home with your guiding hand.

I recently wrote a book, which is currently being edited. It’s about my relationships with women and how, through those relationships, I’ve come to know myself better. The book explores love and loss, neglect, childhood trauma, lust, desire, boundaries, and self-respect. I mention this because I’ve explored myself mentally and emotionally throughout my life and find therapy to be a wonderful resource.

I’m open to discussing our kinks, and I won’t shame you for yours, but this post is really about LOVE and the search for that, along with the dynamic. Kinks can be discussed anytime in a chat. :)

Safety is such an important factor—to feel safe with someone is almost everything. And I say “almost” because, to feel safe and love someone is everything. That is what I want in my relationship with you. I hope you’re out there, and I look forward to talking more and getting to know each other :)

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