Hi, I am 30, a Sri Lankan nationality who at present is living abroad and is somone who is looking for a women to spend the rest of my life with.

Unlike most people my age, I have travelled to four couantries with the present country I am in now being my fith country and have a lot of stories from experience. This is because I have never been happy about staying in one location for long which I could never understand why until I fell in love for the first time which ended up in a breakup that lead me discover so many things about myself.

Based on the past relationship experience I discovered that I am someone who is extremely loyal, committed and dedicated. I just lose all in interest in other women and they all start to look the same. This is because my emotional side and the strong deep desire to care for the partner I have takes over and I become this person who wants to dedicate my life to make my future partner happy in every way possible. This is also why I am alright with living anywhere.

Until 2022, I was focused on travelling, exploring and only working to save money to travel, but I started to feel lonely after that. It was until 2023 November that I met someone online and fell in love with her where months later she came to Sri Lanka and we met in person, despite the fact she had lied about her age (10 years older than me and looked ever older) I still accepted her for who she is and still chose to love her unconditionally. In the end she broke it off as she felt I deserved better.

Prior to falling in love with her I had only thought about marriage and my ideal partner as a teenager, and not as an adult eveything I told was from the teenage fantasy I had.

After the breakup I have comtemplated for months regarding the partner I want but the only criteria I can come up with is that I prefer someone is loyal, loving, caring and wants to spend the rest of her life with one person and is also white, In fact the women I dated was also white. I am not sure why but naturally this is my preference.

Hobbies and interest. I could easily say travelling, riding a jet ski and mention a 100 different hobbies I have enjoyed in the past and at present, since I am in a new country in the most developed and desired cities everone dreams of travelling to eveyday when I go somewhere I see and learn something new.

Despite the interesting life I have and continue to have, I no longer have a desire to live for myself. Because, after falling in love before and I started living for someone else and I felt a sense of fulfilment and happiness I never felt before. However, after experiencing love and then going through a painful breeakup it created this void in my heart that even travelling or any of my past hobbies or social life cannot fulfill.

My dream in life is to be a husband who will love, care and be the best I can be. As a person, I am kind, polite and never have issues with anyone. With a partner, I am more than that, I become this person who does what I am told and afraid when she gets mad at me. I stay silent if I am getting scolded because I love that person and don't want to yell back and her feelings.

The mission oriented mindset. When I set my mind onto a goal, I go full force ahead where I strive to archive it against all odds. This is how I have travelled around as we.

When I was relationship it's the same thing. My ex ordered me to get a Degree and I got one with first class honors, get a better job and I did.

Now, the issue is that since I no longer I have a partner, I feel lost and uncertain of how to move forward in life. I am like a ship without a captian. So, if you want a marriage to be certain way or want life to go in direction you want with someone like me who is incredibly flexible and adaptable and will change according to the ideal husband you want me to be that is definitely possible.

What I expect from a partner is someone who will be loyal committed, loving and someone who will believe in me and wants to get married once and live the rest of her life with a man who will always put her first in his life. Also, a partner who likes to make the final decision. For example, on the weekends if you want to go somewhere but I am uncertain or have a place in mind, you can choose your decision over mine or go along with my suggestion.

Location does not matter, where you want to live is where I will live and at it usually takes me less than a week to settle down in a new place from the weather to the food, culture, transportation system etc.

Food: Not picky about anything.

I am too flexible and too adaptable.

If you like what you read and want to get to k ow me better then send me a message and let's get to know each other better.