I'm single, have enough on my plate, I'm not chasing after anything serious per say or relationship, but I'm also fully open for the right person when it happens, truth is.. I have no aversion to something committed, I'd welcome it.. but of course that would mean two connect fully and want all the same stuff from life, at this age now, I know what I like and want in life and don't want.. although, I'm just not even interested in dating right now.. for now, seeking a good mix of friendly vibes & affection.. looking for 'the one right now' and it be great if she was someone with these preferences in life of being a childfree, petfree, own independent person

I'm 36, Brown man, considered attractive, average dadbod, stubble to shaved-ish head with a short-medium beard, am childfree & petfree, well groomed, big on hygiene, selfcare, tattooed, professional with remote/wfh job in niche market and overall a chill, levelheaded, mature, balanced individual that's not interested in games/fakeness/deception and am interested in a straightforward real woman who's a good fit that's not worried about emotions or feelings in something like this because she understands it adds to make it better; I think emotional maturity and life experience are attractive

I'm happy to swap pic if there's interest after you introduce yourself, we can have a lowkey coffee-walk to see if there's enough mutual interest to pursue anything further.. I'm not into online stuff and want someone in metro Vancouver to connect with. I barely use any of the apps nowadays and I am terrible at forever messaging chat not having ever met plus I keep expectations low given reddit msgs I've gotten

I'm fully unattached, ie. not dating anyone or looking really, I want consistent ongoing sitch, fun vibes, chill good thing. I'm not looking to go out and do stuff; wanting to stay in to enjoy eachother, friendly-lovers, kept private indoors is fine, overall I'm not looking for a pseudo dating relationship but do want a good connection. I prefer a longer term situation whether we call it being casual, having fun, lovers, FWB etc

I'm not in a rush so want to enjoy a fun connection and my life until that 'right match' and something serious emerges

For something meaningful, I'm an atheist, mostly apolitical, childfree and petfree as I want to live no obligation lifestyle freely. I'm not really into the super pronoun using acronym heavy overly politically correct personalities, but a real and not hateful person is who I vibe with.. ie. who doesn't need to over correct, is somebody who doesn't actually actively have a problem with common phrases that were ok before but now are seen as offensive, someone good natured yet not uptight about perception but cares whats in your heart