Hello redditfolk! I'm a 34 year old guy from NJ, USA.

I'm a NEET, which means Not in Education, Employment, or Training. Basically long-term unemployed. There are various reason for that and it probably won't change. I know it's a deal breaker for many, so I like to be upfront about it. I'm almost certainly somewhere in the realm of neurodivergence, likely ADHD autism, but not officially diagnosed.

For the few who are still reading, I'm also into antique/vintage items, computers, video games, Lego, and various other nerdy hobbies. I'm mostly indoorsy, but enjoy occasional outings, such as going to flea markets. I'm dedicated to being childfree and also an antinatalist. I'm politically left, religiously agnostic, and try to be open to everyone's ways of thinking and living. People should be free to be who they are or want to be as long as they're not hurting anyone.

I'm looking for someone who is also kind, honest, childfree, monogamous, and totally single. I'm probably most compatible with someone who has nerdy hobbies and is also indoorsy like I am. I would love to go on some trips and adventures with a spcial someone, but probably not to the extent of skydiving or traveling the entire world. I like to think that what I lack in traditional ambition and adventure I can make up for in love, kindness, and comfort. If you would enjoy simple things like building Lego, playing board games, walks in the park, and going thrifting together, then we might be a good match!

Physically, I'm 5'11" with blue-green eyes, brown hair that's going a bit gray on the sides already, usually a stubble of facial hair, glasses, and I've been losing weight but still a little bit chubby. I'm completely substance-free; no alcohol, drugs, or smoking. I'm reasonably healthy and kind of cute. I don't mind exchanging photos pretty quickly after a bit of chatting.

It would be nice to find a lady who lives close to northwestern NJ, but I realize I'm looking for a unicorn, so I'm open to people from anywhere in the world. Maybe we can figure out a way to meet someday, or just enjoy being together from a distance, in the ways that we can. Ultimately, being with the right person from a distance is better than being with the wrong person nearby, and has more potential to become something lasting. Please send a message rather than using the chat feature if possible!