Me

Hi all!

I'm 44, white guy from the Midwest. Tall, tattooed, heavily pierced, and paint my nails black. Clean and ddf, tested regularly. I work - a lot - have my own car, rent an apartment all on my lonesome. Do not have nor want children in the future.

I love thunderstorms, coffee at all hours, going to see live music, and waiting for TV series' to be complete before binging them in their entirety. I'm more city boy, less country. I prefer the ocean over the mountains, although the mountains can be pretty at times.

I love horror movies, Sci fi tv, and fantasy books. I'd ideally like to host an every other week d&d game at some point. I'm attracted to the punk or goth aesthetic, tattoos and piercings are the best!

I do twice-weekly therapy for the past 12 years. I have baggage, but I have it handled.

I have two long distance partners, one I see once a year, the other I see every few weeks and attend lifestyle parties with. I do practice enm (open to monogamy with the right partner), but still looking for my forever life partner who wants to do this life thing together, with full equity and equality. That being said, I'm also very dominant (not controlling, there's a differece) and would love to find my submissive woman, eventually collar and all. Nerds are a huge plus! Must be comfortable being restrained and with light to medium bdsm.

I feel any lifelong-lasting relationship should be based on love, trust, communication, and sex. Once I find someone that I have all four parts with, I'll know I'll have found my person.

Age or race don't matter to me, but I do follow the half your age plus 7, so preferably no one under 29. Must be clean and ddf, and willing to get tested regularly with me if we're not mono. I'd prefer you to know what you want out of life, and a partner. I don't mind if you have baggage, as long as it's something you're handling and not just ignoring. Mental health is just as important as emotional and physical.

If this is you, please respond with more than just one word. Tell me a bit about yourself, your interests, and what you're hoping to find in a life partner. I can't wait to hear from you!