I'm 30M, had a vasectomy, Allentown Pennsylvania. I really love gaming, hiking/exploring, reading, learning new art skills and honing existing ones, and history. I'm pagan and while important to me, doesn't have to be to anyone else. My special interests include reptiles, the ancient Celts, foraging, science, 80s alternative music, gothic horror, surrealism, cyberpunk, and speculative fiction. Currently playing through FFXVI.

Selfies here, moustache is most recent, both from this summer: https://ibb.co/BVbH6rk https://ibb.co/TY2PzZp

I currently work nights in a warehouse, but as of this writing I have a second interview for a remote IT job during the day. I'm sober and no longer own a car, nor do I intend to as I'm saving a lot of money this way. I intend to be completely out of all kinds of debt soon, and I enjoy living simply. I've never been one with expensive tastes or a lavish lifestyle and I am most content with the changes of the seasons and quiet time.

On my days off, I usually go hiking, hit up a cafe, read, play games, work on an art project, etc. I used to frequent Ren Faires, D&D, conventions, all that jazz. Tried to branch out and after about five years of going to different events, performing poetry and music live, going to sports and hiking events, etc to try to branch out, I found I just don't enjoy crowds nor relate with most people. I was raised nomadically when younger, grew up in Alaska, and I was diagnosed high-functioning autistic back in 2022. I've seen so much of the world and I've done nearly everything, but the things that brought me the most joy was spending time with a lover in activities of their choosing. When alone, the things that bring my the most joy are drawing, reading, exploring, or gaming, so my own aspirations and goals are really only to maintain what I have. I've been single for four and a half years and really only interested in meeting someone who would love me for who I am.

I love meeting new and interesting people! I am compassionate and sympathetic, but highly driven by intellectual curiosity and pursuits. I really would love a partner who enjoys sharing their knowledge and fascinations with me on any subjects of their choosing. Looking for someone preferably close to my age nearby. I recently lost 130lbs in the last two years and so I'm looking for someone fit to slightly overweight because I was rejected for my weight a lot when I was fat and now fitness is a major part of my lifestyle too.

The ideal partner would be someone who enjoys time spent together, though by no means do I desire to monopolize someone's life. I really enjoy watching things together, or simply doing our own thing in the same room. My dream would be to simply have someone to come home to and sit by a fireplace most ngiths, together. I think interpersonal and sexual chemistry is essential for a relationship, though I am not a jealous person and I'm open to both monogamous and non-monogamous relationship styles. I really want a companion, though nearly five years alone has taught me that I can fill my own time quite enjoyably. I miss intimacy and closeness, and the joy of investing in someone else's dreams and goals. I want someone I can "Gomez Addams" with, and even in a committed relationship of many years, continue to "court" as though we were a new couple. Work and effort feel so much more rewarding when pursued for the happiness of someone else worth it in addition to myself.

I can't wait to hear from you!

EDIT: Added on to this after a few days of thinking lol