Hey there, Ça va?

A wandering hopeful romantic in search of a meaningful connection.

About Me:

I am a Texan with small-town roots, currently enjoying my time in the big city of Chicago. I moved to Chicago to continue my medical education. I am a medical student! I have a South Asian heritage, which adds a touch of cultural richness to my life.

Hobbies & Interests:

While shared interests are a bonus, I value a genuine connection above all. Here’s a bit about what I enjoy:

• Movies: I love movie nights and frequently host them with a selection that ranges from "Inception" and "Godzilla Minus One" to classics like "The Thing" (1982), "Whiplash," and "Shutter Island." Movie nights come equipped with a selection of snacks and drinks: popcorn, peanuts, cashews, ice cream (Talenti, Ben & Jerry's, Häagen-Dazs, etc.), and more.
• Cuisine: I enjoy exploring various cuisines at restaurants and trying new recipes at home. Thai, Mediterranean, and Ethiopian are my favorites.
• Staying Active: I balance my love for food with running, walking, and lifting. You might find me on the Bloomingdale Park Trail or strolling through Union Park.
• Other Interests: Reading, board games, video games, and learning new languages. I love the strategy and fantasy of board games. It would be awesome to converse in different languages and have our own secret dialogues. Mon amour. Mahal ko.

Personality:

I would describe myself as reserved and adventurous yet playful once comfortable. I am a homebody at heart, but I still enjoy venturing out. I go the extra mile for my partner, often showing my love through meaningful gestures such as cards, poems, and physical affection. I do remember the little things too.

Physical Description:

I have mid-neck-length, subtly curly hair, usually clean-shaven but sometimes with well-maintained stubble. My complexion is caramel, with dark brown eyes, a slim-to-average physique, and I stand 5'7".

About You:

I'm looking for someone who values a healthy and active lifestyle, and takes care of themselves physically. Physical affection is important to me, and I appreciate a slightly clingy partner—it’s nice to feel wanted. Vulnerability is key for me, as it fosters a deeper connection. I value companionship and reciprocity, appreciating mutual effort and understanding. Open-mindedness, calmness, and versatility are qualities I find attractive.

Other Stuff:

• Religion & Politics: I'm not religious but open-minded about all faiths. Politically, I avoid polarizing views, valuing independent thinking and the evolution of my beliefs.

• Kids & Pets: I've decided not to have children to focus on my partner, hobbies, and career. I prefer not to have pets but am willing to accommodate.

Consistent communication and a genuine desire to converse are all I ask. I understand people are busy, but I think an intentional approach to dating is important. I cannot bond over one message per day. If you're not interested, honesty is appreciated—I won't take it personally.