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40[F4M] Southeast (NC): Seeking a fellow optimist!
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_soulmeetsbody_ is a female age 40 looking for a male in North Carolina
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Hi there! I hope you’re having a great week. I’ve tried the dating apps, and, while I’ve met some lovely people, I just haven’t found a true connection yet. A friend suggested that I post here in an attempt to expand my search.

I’m seeking someone who’s ready and able to explore the possibility of a committed, monogamous relationship. I’m not looking to jump right into anything, and I’m not one to force something if it doesn’t seem that it will work. I’d like to take the time to get to know each other, each other’s likes and dislikes, and each other’s hopes and dreams.

I’m looking for someone who finds emotional availability, honesty, trust, compassion, communication, transparency, and equality to be important components of a relationship.

I enjoy pop culture, travel, food and wine, broadening my horizons, learning, hiking, art, reading, finding the joy in small things, and expressing myself creatively. I appreciate gratitude, open-mindedness, kindness, and a sense of humor. I’m respectful of others’ boundaries, and I appreciate the same in return.

I’d love to find someone who wants a best friend, a companion, and a cheerleader, in addition to a romantic partner who is positive, loving, and supportive. I think that it’s important for partners to share similar worldviews and ethics. It’s wonderful to share some common hobbies and interests, but it’s also great to be able to enjoy some things independently of your partner.

I enjoy the physical expression of love, and I most enjoy it when it’s expressed with joy, passion, and regularity. Creativity, spontaneity, and an openness to new things are also appreciated! With that said, it’s all about respect, and an awareness not to jump into things too quickly.

With a partner, I also enjoy cooking, traveling, long conversations, inside jokes, binging shows, walking/hiking, and, in general, trying/exploring new things.

I’m looking for someone around my age who is, preferably, located in the Southeast US (I live in NC), or at least on the East Coast. However, I’m open to someone located elsewhere if the connection is right.

If any of this piques your interest, then please feel free to send me a chat with a little information about you. I look forward to talking with you!

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7 months ago