Hello,

I’m a 35 year old male from upstate New York who is looking for a long term relationship. I'm from NY but am open to relationships further afield than the state of NY.

I feel that I am someone who has a duality of mind of that of an engineer, someone that notices very fine details from small architectural details in an old home to being able to recognize a car by the sound of its engine/exhaust note to hearing a small instrumental part buried in a mix of a song with a creative side of me that enjoys creating artwork, doing photography, playing music (jazz is a favourite of mine), dance as well as writing.

I also enjoy spending time in nature/nature conservation, raising butterflies, listening to music (jazz, math rock, 90's drum 'n' bass, ambient soundscapes, wave, obscure psychedelic rock and more), skiing, long distance cycling/walking, restoring antique radios, electrical engineering and amateur radio, cooking, reading, researching old architecture, vintage cars and more.

Communication is something that I find is extremely important for a relationship. That, combined with trust, in my opinion forms the foundation of a relationship. Without these two aspects I feel that a relationship really cannot stand.

I’m an introvert but I also very much enjoy engaging socially with people as it brings me a great deal of joy. However, sometimes crowds can be challenging as the increased amount of sensory input which causes me to tire more quickly. I usually require a bit of rest after a social engagement.

Physical touch and intimacy is a love language for me and is something that I consider very important to a relationship. Intimacy between two partners is something that can be exceptionally beautiful, affirming, sacred and special.

I don’t mind if you drink socially but more than that is a bit too much for me. If you consume edible cannabis that's fine but anything else I'm not really comfortable with. I also would not do well with someone who smokes or vapes as I have a smoke allergy that negatively affects my breathing.

I'm okay with most pets except for dogs due to my sensitive hearing.

If what I mention above sounds interesting to you please feel free to send me a Reddit message or Reddit chat request. I look forward to hearing from you!

A photo of myself:

https://preview.redd.it/rry3d0214cnc1.jpg?width=2544&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e21c9a1b2bf2254b2ba1dbb8b0d29551bb75358a