Hello!

I’m just a fat girl seeking a cute fat guy haha fat not required but ya 😂

For starters here are some things about me to know and I think it would be a great start to a relationship if we had some in common:

• I am a BBW or SBBW? Idk I don’t really pay attention to those terms or know what they mean or what weight they are supposed to be lol I don’t care. I like chubby and fat guys but it’s not a requirement! If a big girl is a dealbreaker here’s your sign to move on!
• I’m an atheist.
• I had a bisalp 3 years ago, best thing I ever did!
• I am liberal.
• I have 2 jobs and work really hard. I don’t make a lot of $$ though despite that haha I don’t care how much $ you make but I would appreciate if you also had a job and are working towards some passion of yours! Or just working because you gotta live, I get that.
• I have a graduate and undergraduate degree.
• I rent and I understand if you rent. I’d like to own a home at some point in my life but idk if it can happen on my own. Maybe one day!
• I go to therapy. I have my own issues and shit we all have lol I value and prioritize therapy.
• Speaking of values, some of my values are: communication, authenticity, honesty, respect, independence, productivity, pursuing a dream, boundaries, empathy, self-awareness, and seeing into someone’s heart not their looks
• I’m monogamous. No poly, no open relationships, no situationships.
• Im a non-smoker, non-drinker (casually once in a blue moon maybe), and no drugs (not even weed)
• I like animals, both dogs and cats!
• I am a sappy romantic type lol

I enjoy drawing and painting, nature and wildlife, movies and tv, and video games. I like to eat Asian food, go out and do silly things like escape rooms, rage rooms, cat cafes lol I love when my friend drags me to some niche craft shop. I’m not afraid to do things alone, I love an empty movie theater at an odd time of day. Just me and my candy and Diet Coke at the movies!

I’ve been single a LONG time, still dealing with some trauma and such, but I feel ready to put myself out there. However I have gotten so good at being single, a partner needs to add to my sense of peace to be worth it, because I don’t need anybody and I don’t rely on anybody. I pay all my bills, deal with all my own issues and flaws, and have my own fun and make my own fulfillment!

I would like to chat over text and then over the phone with someone before meeting up. I know everyone approaches this differently and it can be annoying for some people, so I’m putting it out there now. I want to feel comfortable that a date is going to go well by talking for a bit first.

I hope this helps you get to know me a bit! I look forward to chatting with folks!