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I'd like to know what you look for in a guy . What your love language and present needs in life are. What's been missing in the guys that you talked with in the past because of which , the connection lacked spark ? How you'd consider your life, messed up or sorted. Whether you meticulously plan things or improvise spontaneously. If you'd be willing to date a man who's not settled or has his things in order and still accept him with his imperfections. Things are relative in this world. No one is absolutely perfect or flawless.
Lets chat about anything on your mind. I like people who ask me upfront whatever they want to know about me. And also don't hesitate to share, open up and be vulnerable. Relationships are built on trust, they start from friendships. I'm eventually looking for a long term connection where we can be comfortable with each other and trust fully.
However trusting doesn't mean that we have blind faith in a person, especially on internet where there's lot of scammers and liars. Hence we should not be upset or angry when someone asks us for any proof.
We should have a balance. Like not asking the person to verify on the first day itself but rather trusting our instincts. But at the same time, staying safe online.
As for love, it's hard to develop that over online communication, especially text chat. Most of us are just in love with the idea of love. We tend to feel attracted with the idea of the person we formed in our mind which may be different from his real self.
Anyways, my way of searching is to tell everything about me completely and transparently. Whoever appreciates my honesty and likes me for what I am will stay.
So, just some basics. I'm 6 feet. I live in north India. But I am open to moving to your city or country. I like thriller movies, chess, reading, soccer. I love animals though don't have pets. I'm childfree. I haven't been able to find anyone for a relationship yet, so you'll be my first gf.
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