>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> EDIT: Do not contact me if you are a blank profile, or do not want to talk to me about who you are. I am not going to waste my time with someone who is not serious about this process. I am real, I expect the same.<<<<<<<<<<<<<<

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I have posted here before. I am 45, I live in northern California. I am childless by choice and actually waiting for a vasectomy to be greenlit by my primary care physician. I am looking for a long-term relationship, as in let's plan our themed headstones together, long.

I work in litigation from home. I have a small 2 bedroom house I rent. I am considering moving back to Los Angeles, Back to New Orleans, or Salem. I have lived in Europe and that will be my final destination, Edinburgh, Berlin, Olomouc, Vienna, Bucharest, or Budapest, as these are all places I have lived in or frequented and really enjoy.

I enjoy writing and I am waiting for the strike to be over so I can sell a series of screenplays that were being courted by a couple of studios. I have worked in film, as an archaeologist and worked in mental health. I was a commercial diver for nearly 3 years and used that money to fuel my sense of adventure for almost 10 years.

My hobbies include cooking travel (well destinations) road trips, film, and filmmaking, metal work, writing, camping, archery, equestrian activities, the humanities, prop-making, activism, goth clubs, and music (goth/industrial/dark folk/gothic metal). I absolutely love learning about new things, people, and cultures. I am just getting into videogames and it is sadly comical how bad I am at them. I have been a ttrpg guy since the early '80s. I have a spicy background I am willing to discuss in private. (AS long as that is not the entire focus of our interaction, please)

I don't date smokers conservatives or religious people. At 45 you know who you are what you seek for success, and you have grown weary of compromising yourself for people who will just betray you. I am flexible when it is reasonable stalwart when it comes to identity and human rights.

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If you are remotely interested please say hello.

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