Why it is that when people post either couple4m or F4M there us 95% of the time money being ask for? Can not understand why money needs to requested or expired. Can someone please explain to me why when people post Couple4M or F4M they always expect to get someone hard earned money. It would be different if it was like going out for drinks and seeing if the M will help pay for the drinks or something like that. But why before anything is setup or anything you have to put ""$$"". If you start a chat and then the F4M says you want my menu or I charge. I am just hoping someone can explain it to me. And I do not understand why when a lady or couple ask for money up front and then you tell them you charge the same as they do and they get all Offended.. it is not fair if someone tells you they charge that you can charge as well?