My ex and I split up on leap day, tomorrow morning I'm leaving for a new city and state. We have 2 cats together named Jack and Sally. Sally was my first cat, a tuxedo with a patchwork patten (I have pictures of both on my profile). Rescued her Nov 3rd, 2017. I feel like I'm grieving at the loss of her, multiple times over. It hasn't gotten easier.

The first 6 weeks was in the apartment, while we stayed out the remainder of the lease. I cried so much in the beginning. It was almost a daily occurrence, usually a few. Eased up after awhile. The last month has been away and it's been hard. Now I am for sure heading out tomorrow morning, it's hitting me really hard again. I do have the AuDHD and it plays a rile in how I'm attached to them, if I remember right.

Those of you who went through something similar, how long did it take to get Easier?