My former partner and I were seeing each other casually for about three months. We are both married and in open relationships. We recently broke up after having sex for the first time. We flirted and dated up until then.

I hadn’t talked to him in about two weeks. Today I texted him and he told me that the emotional connection that developed was more than it was supposed to be. Then, he wished me the best.

I personally feel like he lead me on for quite a while leading up to us having sex. He stared deeply into my eyes, held my hand, and kissed me passionately. We saw each other quite often. It wasn’t perfect but it seemed like we connected on a level that was much more than casual.

I’m heartbroken. I don’t know what to do to get my mind off if this. I am trying to get out there to meet new people. Nobody seems to be as good as he was. I’m glad we met but so sad that I will never talk to him again.

Today’s text put the nail in the coffin of our relationship.