Are you interested in meeting a straight Dominant man to explore:

• Submission
• Power exchange
• Sensual touch
• Vulnerability
• Letting go
• Letting someone else take control
• Being in the present, experiencing each moment
• Feeling empowered to say No
• Feeling safe to say Yes

You've wanted to explore, to give and receive, but you haven't been with someone you trust, who accepts you, and with whom you can feel safe.

Until now. Until me.

Boston / Watertown area - 5'9" 170 lbs - Vaccinated 6x - Recent STD tests: all negative

Let's talk. After some messaging, if we both feel comfortable let's meet in person over coffee or ice cream. No pressure, no agenda except to talk more and see how it feels being together.

Are you a beginner to kink? I enjoy explaining my approach and gently introducing you to many fun and intriguing ideas and experiences. Dualities and contradictions abound! Confusion is normal. Myths and abuse are common.

You'll love my slow, sensual, step-by-step approach to consent, my Compare-and-Contrast technique, my respect for your boundaries, my encouraging smile, and warm aftercare.

Do you have a partner that you want to be present or include?
They are always welcome.

Are you experienced?
Tell me your desires and limits and I'll share mine.

I'm kind, present, always listening, imperfect, never in a hurry. I'm a gentleman with old-school manners, until you ask me not to be.

I enjoy asking (and answering) questions, going slowly, learning about you, sharing about me, building trust.

Let's begin! Shall I lead?