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I'm a Scorpio (35M) and my Cap GF (20F) (yes I'm aware it's a big gap but we didn't mind). She broke up with me about 3 weeks ago. The reason given was she felt like she was letting me down and not able to give me what I deserved. Life was overwhelming her and she couldn't be there for me.
She's been dealing with financial struggles, job short comings, family matters, and couple recent suicides. I feel so bad for her and just want to be there. I tried desperately to get her to reconsider and just take a break to handle what she needed and I would be here to no avail. She told me I've been amazing to her and deserve better, deserve someone who can be there for me.
The reality is she's done so much for me just by existing. Went through some rough times myself while we were together and just seeing her face and spending time with her is what got me through it.
We never had major hearted arguments. When we had disagreements we'd both get upset but and usual give each other a but of silent treatment after hitting an impass but after a it we were always able to have an adult conversation about the issue with apologies and acknowledging/admitting our respective wrongs.
She was massively concerned with being able to talk to me down the road if she saw me since we share a lot of interests and go to same small events. She was worried that I wouldn't let her come say hi and would act like she doesn't exist.
We still communicate in she degree daily. Might be a couple snaps, or a text, and even occasional phone calls.
I still left her a flower and note on her car on Valentine's and she immediately messaged me saying thank you then proceeded to snap me back and forth all night.
I think that's the bulk of the info that may matter. It was both of our longest relationship.
I've realized mistakes I made and things I could have done better even though she never once complained about them, but I'm actively working on betting myself regardless.
Is there any hope? What can I do to win her back? I'm willing to move mountains for her.
Don’t come to a Capricorn sub and tell us that we cant point out the obvious. One thing about us, your tears and suffering doesn’t mean anything when it’s self inflicted. The age gap is gross, and you’re disgusting for it. Not coddling you.
Scorpios are always playing the victim and trying to use us for our natural pragmatism, because we don’t yell and scream so they’re abusive as hell and don’t get any argument for it. It’s horrible, I be so damn tired of them.
That’s why I’m so happy I have a Scorpio regular at work (strip club) and I suck him dry of all his money, make him think were in a relationship (same thing Scorpios do, so now the tables are turned). Love seeing him squirm knowing he’s pretending to be kind, giving me a lot of money and stuff but meanwhile he really wants to suck me into his vortex of drama. All of them, all they do is pretend to be kind while plotting to surround you with their emotional abuse. I say suck em dry.
Ohhh nooo sounds like she’s in a power position and can use it to give you trouble 😐
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Caps 🤝🏻 Not coddling people