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Myself Cap (F33) am completely love struck ding bat witty over this Scorpio (M44) Iām not even sure why but I am sooooo drawn to him. Iāve dated my share of men and have always been able to detach myself easy at the smallest hint of chasingā¦. But itās like a thrill that this Scorpian & myself love playing cat & mouseā¦. I try ghosting him but that never last longer then a week two tops ā¼ļøā¼ļøā¼ļø heās tried cutting me off as well but for whatever reasonā¦ I always find myself right back under that pretty smile & slanted eyesā¦. Last time I felt this way about a manā¦ I was 15 in high schoolā¦ what is it???
36š girl I know heās trash lol but I love this trash š„ŗ
Iām a cap. Probably years. I donāt think even my own husband knows me (Iām poly btw, to explain my other comments)
Iām a cap and the Scorpio Iām dealing with is ghosting right now. Itās hell I hate it. I fucking want and love his stupid ass so much
Ohhhh noā¦he had a crush on you back then too smh. I know Iāve had crushes and never said anything, even allowing them to dissipate. Honestly if heās trying to keep in contact with you, I wouldnāt even think anything of it. His actions mean more than his words. He might want you for a role or for a relationship; but more importantly, has he been dependable? Approachable? Emotionally safe? Those are the tell tale signs that he cares for you deeply versus wanting you to fulfill specific roles for him. But think though, how has he acted?
Ohhhh well itās different then. And yes Capricorns, I will absolutely treat people like theyāre a puzzle piece that fits into one specific role in my life and thatās it, or like they have a job to do and thatās job is specific. If those people ghosted me I wouldnāt care because it becomes about just replacing a role that Iām casting. I dunno if anyone has admitted this, but itās true. Not for everyone weāre dating, not for all of our friends but there are people who we treat as such. This comes with benefit of zero drama from us because if we like you, weāre gonna be crybabies about itš„²
Thatās crazy lol. But wouldnāt that make him feel like a stalker if he kept trying to reach out and you didnāt talk to him? There would be a disconnect between how much he misses you and how much heās trying to contact you because eventually people would need to step away, since it appears like you donāt want them anymore.
I bet he does babes š„¹ so do you do the periodic ghostings to him or is that never a factor
Exactly!!! Cause when weāre together it feels like magic, like I found my soulmate. When weāre together he looks and acts the happiest heās ever been, I know he feels it too! I donāt understand the ghostings or what theyāre suppose to accomplish.
How long..last time I saw him be snuggled up to me and fell asleep like a baby, next thing I knew he threw me out like old trash and told me he wasnāt in the mood for me anymore. I texted him like a billion times telling him how much I value him and he never responded.
Oh he broke me already lmao š„²
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My Scorpio always gets rid of me. I miss him. He literally canāt get rid of me, Iām drawn to him like a magnet but Iām sure he would rather get rid of me. Itās so sad smh I love him