So my (femme) gf has been talking about some ideas for clothes and accessories that she wants to wear for Pride, and just kinda in general sometimes to feel sexy on dates to clubs etc. For example, she found a different style of bra she wants to try, the type meant to be a bit visible under a top. And she’s looking at fun stuff like hot pants.

I realized this makes me want to have more sexy fun with clothes/accessories, too, but I’m not sure where to go with it! So far we only came up with a hot pair of boxers, which is an idea I like. But what about stuff that would be visible? My only other thought is maybe leather; I have a couple of bracelets we both like when I wear.

Butch community, do you have other thoughts for stuff that feels/looks hot for you to wear when you’re going out? Especially for summer (I love my shirts and ties but it gets so hot out). 🔥 And especially for women whose body type is on the soft, kinda overstuffed teddy bear side of things.