hey y’all. hmm i guess im just doing this to see if i can find some community? someone else to bond over being a butch lesbian and into ethical non monogamy? i made a post on the ENM subreddit about it but i thought i’d also give it a shot where i knew for sure other lesbians would see it. honestly, i struggle a bit with being into ENM after coming out as a lesbian. i haven’t encountered people that disrespect me, and i hope i don’t, ever, but it’s the general feeling i get from lesbian spaces… that i’m gonna be rejected because my perspective on relationships is different, or that i’ll be seen as less lesbian, less queer because of it, too. i love all lesbians. being butch myself i guess we could say i’d prefer a butch4butch relationship but i also love femmes, still i’m very scared of making any move on anyone because of this. even if you don’t practice ethical non monogamy yourself, it would help a lot if you idk drop a kind message or something, any kind of advice is appreciated. i just wanna know i won’t be utterly rejected. anyway, if there are other butches into enm that wanna be friends, i’d be happy to read y’all. much love.