Sigh...this is an embarrassing question because I feel like at my age I should know these things (kind of a late bloomer here), and also not sure if this post is even allowed, but -

where the heck do I meet butch women??

I'm on dating apps and it seems like everyone I swipe through is femme. I go out and do things but my hobbies and activities are pretty solo & I don't ever meet people.

I googled it and one suggestion was to join a womens sports team. That is a terrible idea - imagine David from Schitts Creek playing baseball and yeah lol. I promise you that would only end in misery for everyone lmao.

Otherwise a lot of the advice is to join dating apps (I have) and idk what else.

Any thoughts or ideas?

I'm not one to wear tshirts & pants (more into dresses) but if I need to wear a tshirt advertising my intentions, I just may do it! (kidding) (kind of haha)

Thanks in advance :)