I don't know why I hadn't thought of this before but now I'm genuinely so curious about something that Xander said.

Prior to the party, which I notice the majority of posts are about, when they have the zombie cat in the library. Xander says "so Buffy did you meet any nice pimps on your travels? And by the by, thanks for ruining our lives for the last 3 months"

Maybe it's just me, but I instantly thought "Jesus Christ. A bit dramatic ya turd" It was 3 months she's been doing the slayer gig for years now. Sacrificing a normal social life, having to be closed off to others(she's not even supposed to have a "Scooby gang") , physical, mental, and emotional trauma, and god knows what else.

But you guys have to patrol for 3 months while all still having your loved ones, obviously with the exception of Buffy and knowing where she is, and you think your lives were ruined. She comes back, Angel is no where to be found, and you can't seem to think about your "best friend" and how painful it must have been to kill your significant other (evil or not at the time of death) and then the fact that Cordelia is the one to kind of understand and be the voice of? Reason? Lol I don't know how to say it but I assume you get what I'm trying to say. Damn.

Obviously stuff happens off screen, but I've been thinking. What else could have possibly changed that "ruined" their lives?

Lol seems so ridiculous. Aye yai yai.