It feels like I’m constantly seeing shit about how shitty men are and how much better it is not dating them. From small things like this video I just watched about how shitty men’s media is to other things like wlw who talk about how much better their sex lives and romantic lives are, it feels like there shouldn’t be any real reason to date dudes.

I mean, look at all the assholes out there that prove it. I see people catcall women daily, every woman I know ha been sexually harassed in some way, and a lot of men I used to associate with are comfortable with being casually sexist - even some of the more liberal men I knew held on to pretty harmful assumptions about women.

It feels like whatever is wrong with men it’s in every single one of us and I honestly don’t know why women would still choose to date us after all of that. I just feel like there’s nothing good about us.

What do you all think? I could really use some perspective here.